I Didn't Bleed!!

[PunkRoxS9]

I lost my virginity on the 25th September, it really hurt (but it was also lovely because I got to give my boyfriend my body, I think it hurt a normal amount), but I didn't bleed at all. Is that normal? I'm worried because two years ago a guy tried to rape me, I cried and he stopped. I remember it really badly hurt, but it didn't go in.
Is there any possibility that this guy from before actually took my virginity?? I'm just so worried, because it means a lot to me to be my boyfriend's girl, not some other guy's.

[noise94]

Your hymen isn't actually your virginity. A lot of girl's never bleed because it's ''broken'' beforehand by sports or a fall etc. Your virginity is a personal thing, don't worry about whether or not you bled! Glad your first time was special.

[taylalatbh.]

Nicola is right, your hymen doesn't determine whether you've lost your virginity or not. That is down to your personal opinion on what virginity means to you. As for not bleeding, it's completely normal. Some girls bleed, some don't. Both are normal.

I'm glad it was nice to you, take care

[PunkRoxS9]

Thank you for clearing that up. I'm less worried now. And thanks, it was lovely because we did for love nothing else.

[Brandon]

Like they say, don't associate virginity with bleeding. It's possible that your hymen broke a long time ago and you just don't remember. Hymens can break by a lot of things, including tampons. Not all women bleed when their hymens get broken, so that's a possibility too.

[WillO'Wisp]

You don't bleed usually unless your hymen hasn't already been broken, and your hymen doesn't really count as your virginity like someone said. I broke mine before I had sex by using a tampon. It can be broken other ways, and the guy did not go in so therefore you did not lose your virginity to him.
It's perfectly normal to not bleed your first time. I went to the bathroom and checked and I didn't bleed either.

[Justin Bieber]

If I were you, I'd be happy there was no blood! Using tampons can break the hymen, random movement can break the hymen, masturbating can break the hymen... and so much more. Your virginity and hymen breaking are two different situations- as everyone else said. I just wanted to be another voice =]

[PunkRoxS9]

Thanks everybody =] I feel much better and more secure =] x

[bitesize]

Some people are even born with no hymens. I'm just repeating everyone else at this stage, but I wouldn't worry too much (: I hardly bled at all when I lost my virginity even though I have bled at other times.