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Can't finish masturbating? - November 12th 2010, 06:18 PM

well im a girl and im having my first attempts at masturbating, lol, the thing is, when i start rubbing my clit i can't go on with it, it's not like "painful" but i just feel like i have to stop? not because i think it's wrong or anything like that, it's just a bit of an overwhelming feeling? any advive would be really great, thanx
   
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Re: Can't finish masturbating? - November 12th 2010, 07:03 PM

I'm not really sure what sort of advice to give, but I'd say that's normal.

It could be that you get too tired to finish it. Not as though you have to stop or you'll collapse with fatigue. But it's pretty exhausting stuff and as you build up to an orgasm it can be quite a struggle to keep going - overwhelming, as you say.

I can't say why that is but it's not unusual so don't worry. It's only your first attempt so it will feel new and strange to begin with.

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Re: Can't finish masturbating? - November 12th 2010, 07:14 PM

It sounds to me like you're just a bit too sensitive down there. Have you tried masturbating through your underwear? It might lessen the sensitivity so you could finish.

As it is only your first few goes at masturbating, you might just need to experiment a bit to find out what you like and how you get yourself off. Don't give up hope, just continue trying.

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Re: Can't finish masturbating? - November 12th 2010, 11:34 PM

Honestly, I never completely finish and that's the reason why.

Anytime I orgasm it's much to overwhelming to even thing, much less control my motor functions. That's why I always find it better when someone can do it for me

So yeah, totally normal. With practice you'll find you can push yourself farther, though.
   
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Re: Can't finish masturbating? - November 13th 2010, 03:42 AM

That happens when i get close to orgasming.
The more I did it, the more I got use to it.
Now it doesn't bother me.
So just try it a little more. Or not rub as hard?
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Re: Can't finish masturbating? - November 13th 2010, 02:00 PM

Its because your clit is super sensitive, you dont have to rub directly on it, to the side or around it could help
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Re: Can't finish masturbating? - November 13th 2010, 05:30 PM

Hey

As the others have said, try different things. If you feel this isn't quite working for you, then just try something else

I like Tayla's idea of trying it with you underwear still on.
Remember to be gentle, it's a senstive area, and can often respond to the lightest of touches.

Remember also that Google is your friend - we can give specific hints and tips here on TeenHelp - but Google has a lot of answers out there


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Re: Can't finish masturbating? - November 14th 2010, 04:08 PM

I used to have this problem for months!!! haha it was so frustrating i couldnt figure out what my problem was. I ended up surprising myself by not focusing so much on my clit, and just doing what felt good! You don't have to be directly touching your clit. Just relax and focus on enjoying yourself.
   
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