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Effects of Being Fingered. -
November 21st 2010, 11:57 PM
I don't know if it's possible to be too explicit on this site, but I'm really just searching for help and therefore will need to give details.
I really enjoy being fingered. It always feels good, and I find myself wanting it a lot. The only problem is..whenever my boyfriend does finger me, about five minutes into it I'll burst into tears. It's for no apparent reason. I'm not in pain, or uncomfortable. But I'll ask him to take his fingers out (not because it doesn't feel good) but because I'll become shaky and extremely emotional. It effects me to the point were we have to end up stopping and I just feel weird in my vagina. I haven't had sex yet, so I'm not sure if there would be the same results. Does anyone know why this may be? We're both very confused.
The only way i'd know how to desribe this "weird" feeling is as if I somewhat have to pee, but it also feels different at the same time. Not a feeling i'm used to and therefore can't explain very well.
The feeling starts creeping up in me when he goes a little faster, or harder. I dont want him to stop doing this though, becuase for the first five minutes it feels amazing, before I end up crying...
Re: Effects of Being Fingered. -
November 22nd 2010, 01:52 AM
Look up girls squirting on google, I know kind of weird but really if he keeps going even though your crying your probably just about to have a very intense orgasm
Re: Effects of Being Fingered. -
November 22nd 2010, 04:05 AM
I second that. The intensity can cause a lot of emotion, it's not a bad thing at all. You'll probably get a feeling like you want to push, and that will be the g-spot orgasm, stronger than a normal clitoral orgasm. Give it a try and see what happens. Turn some music on or something, and don't be ashamed that you're in tears, trust me, it's tears of joy! :P