What's your biggest turn off?

[Revolution]

I thought this would be a fun question.
What is your biggest turn off of a significant other? This can be a physical trait, emotional trait, or something they do in bed, anything really.
Mine is the phrase "Hurry up" or "Let's do this quickly" during any kind of sexual act. It's like...no, you're going to take your sweet time. Your mom's coming home soon? Well I guess we don't have time for this, do we?
Know what I mean...? xD
So what's everyone elses's?

[EndureEmo]

his breath always smells like smoke, i bet smokers dont understand what a turn off it is for a non-smoker to kiss a smoker..

[Sythan]

People who do illegal drugs and smoke. Both I find highly disgusting and are major turn offs for me.

[Peppermint Tea.♥]

Bad smell and poor hygiene.

[Anthropomorphic]

Smoking and drinking. That's a deal-breaker (only exception - drinking moderation levels of wine or champagne).

[Peppermint Tea.♥]

Oh yeah, smoking is one of mine, and people being drunk.

[MegaMadness]

Smoking and low confidence. And negativity.

[bitesize]

In general, arrogance, and people who get angry too easily...ew, relax like. In bed, I'm not sure

[Acheron]

Smoking. Oh, and not being smart enough. If I want to facepalm when she talks, she isn't getting anywhere with me.

[xxpaigiexx]

For me my biggest turn off, is someone who doesn't like cuddling or being close to me after sex.
I hate the idea of, right clothes on, we're going out. By taking the intimacy away, things such as cuddling, kissing and being close to each other just leaves you with something you can get from anyone, and I don't believe sex should be like that.

[CaitlinB]

I would say smoking, doing drugs, and ignorant guys. I can't stand any of those things. haha

[Gaia]

Turn offs for me aren't really about bad habits or such things. Don't get me wrong, I don't like bad breath. But that can be fixed with toothpaste
Character flaws are the biggest turn off for me. I couldn't be with someone who didn't get on with my family. I'd prefer them to love my family, but I would settle for like. I don't want anyone too arrogant, money obsessed, selfish or racist. Anyone who judges me, or thinks they're better than me can scoot off as well.

[Jocelyn.]

I hate waiting when I'm ready to get busy lol

Sometimes I'll be in bed and my significant other will be watching some sport (baseball here recently) and I'll do something to let him know I'm ready to go at it... he'll get that feisty look in his eye and start heading towards the bed, and just as I'm ready to pounce he says "Hey, let's wait until this innings over, can we? We might get a run"

But, but, but...

/no longer in mood

[JKmadu619]

Being dirty. Showever once in a while, clean under your nails and for god's sake wash your clothes. Unclean people gross me out.

- Justin

[MacGuffin]

Other than someone who has an addiction, I would say someone who is entirely focused on themselves and what serves to their benefit. Someone who lacks compassion for others. Someone who always wants to know what's in it for them. Selfishness, really, often hand-in-hand with arrogance.

[Beetlejuice]

Ermm this is actually quite a tough one...other than general rudeness and arogance as character traits I'd have to say out of bed it would be smoking and in bed it would be someone totally focused on recieving with no intention of giving or someone who would rush me into things I'm not comfortable with without considering me if that makes sense... :L like if it were my first time I'd HATE to b with someone who'd ry to rush me into sex :L

Luckily my significant other is none of these <3 <3

[Quarter]

I would have to say someone impatient, who do drugs ,smoke (obviously)and has a bad attitude. Also, I can't stand people who are focused with themselves, that they think the earth turns around them (might not be a proper expression [its a Canadian expression I believe]). Egocentric is what I believe to be the right term.

[Revolution]

Originally Posted by ball&chain

I hate waiting when I'm ready to get busy lol

Sometimes I'll be in bed and my significant other will be watching some sport (baseball here recently) and I'll do something to let him know I'm ready to go at it... he'll get that feisty look in his eye and start heading towards the bed, and just as I'm ready to pounce he says "Hey, let's wait until this innings over, can we? We might get a run"

But, but, but...

/no longer in mood

COMPLETELY agree. Then he's in the mood later and you're like "nope!" Lol.
I agree with most of these. I've actually never minded smoking much, besides the fact that when I'm dating someone, I care about them, and don't want to die. But I don't smoke, and my boyfriend doesn't smoke. So it works out anyway. I just grew up with it around, so I got pretty used to it.

[Magic.]

When they do it even when they're not in the mood ... I know it's kinda nice but it just makes for bad sex makes me feel not good enough when the other person's not as keen as me.

[Koharuchan]

Outside bed it would be illegal drugs and smoking. I grew up with my dad smoking, and I never liked it. I've gotten so much secondhand smoke from him, and I don't need more.

In bed, it would have to be when a guy wants to try something that I'm not really keen on, and he still pushes me to do it even when I've expressed that I'm not comfortable with something. I think you should respect your SO's limits and not try to push them into something they don't want to do or makes them feel uncomfortable. That and when the guy wants to do it really soon into the relationship and gets upset when you're not ready for that yet.

[Fishie]

Constant playing of video games or sitting in front of the TV watching sports, in moderation is fine but not 24/7. Also not a fan of when guys bring up how many girls they've been with before we get down to business, sort of ruins the mood (f its just a casual hook up).

[PlayingPretend]

As far as what turns me off in general, the biggest factors would probably be drinking, drugs, or smoking (especially drinking; comes at a disadvantage) and lack of intelligence and maturity. And by intelligence, I don't mean book smart, I don't mean trivia, etc. They have to be smart in general, and they especially have to get it. I can't be with someone who can't sit there and figure out a familial or social dynamic, who doesn't understand the issues behind the issues, and so on.

Physically speaking, drool or any form of shoving your tongue down my throat. My only experience with it is honestly what's turned me off from it, though I ultimately ended up leading very tender tongue kisses. Being pushy about it or not picking up on and listening to my cues. And strangely enough, dominance. The minute someone tries to dominate me, and it could be so simple as giving me an order, is the minute it stops. Occasionally there's a warning, but I don't do being dominated. I'll take a dominant role or I'll share it, but I don't like being dominated. It's one of my biggest turn-offs because it provokes a hell of a lot of fear.

[lauren_160]

Dirty talking i can deal with, but a bloke i slept with actually said to me "babe turn over i wanna slam it in your arse" That just made me cringe.

Erm, Obsessiveness,and constantly want to divulge in PDA annoys me.

[The Morrigan]

Smoking and bad hygiene are major turn offs for me :/

And I agree with Bryden about them doing it when they don't really want to.

[Acheron]

Oh, I have a few more. Female body hair makes me a sad (and flaccid) panda. Pubic hair I can put up with, so long as it's at least trimmed short. But underarm hair, or leg hair, or (God help us) a snail trail? Do not want. Out of shape girls are also a massive turn-off.

[IAmYourFather]

I really dont like it when they get angry easily - especially at me, for no reason. Or patronises me, it's just plain annoying.

[Nicole!]

I've got a few haha.
Poor hygiene, very low self-confidence, and clingyness.

[Rainbow Dash]

Binge-drinkers :| I feel hypocritical saying this as I used to drink myself but drunk people really annoy me now. I don't like it when a person can only have fun when they're drunk.

Smokers. Once again I feel hypocritical as I used to smoke.

People who have no ambition at all.

I also hate cockiness and arrogance.

...hmmmm... I just described a typical person who lives where I live.

[Heartlines.]

Bad smell.
Bad hygiene.
And being pressured.

[Spellbound]

Smoking.
Laziness.
Bad hygiene.
Negativity.
Complaining way too much.
Terrible teeth
I also don't like really long hair on guys

[Pelios]

Big ego.
If he is always spitting.
Boring.

[Verità]

Arrogance, use of anything potentially addicting (alcohol, tobacco, etc), and bad hygiene are probably my biggest ones.

[Scrag]

Originally Posted by Acheron

Oh, I have a few more. Female body hair makes me a sad (and flaccid) panda. Pubic hair I can put up with, so long as it's at least trimmed short. But underarm hair, or leg hair, or (God help us) a snail trail? Do not want. Out of shape girls are also a massive turn-off.

No offence but seriously? I think hair is meant to be there! Not having a go at you mate, but why can't women be hairy like men?

[Acheron]

Originally Posted by Scrag

No offence but seriously? I think hair is meant to be there! Not having a go at you mate, but why can't women be hairy like men?

Yeah, seriously. Just because something is "meant to be there" doesn't mean it looks good when left ungroomed. Clipped your fingernails recently? And saying "hairy like a man" illustrates quite nicely why I don't like it. I like my girls feminine (which also precludes big muscles, deep gravelly voices, etc).

[Skeleton]

I don't like smokers/drug users, kissing them is usually horrible and I don't like drugs so I'm not a big fan of people who use them. I also don't like people who think they're oh so amazing in bed, it's stupid as well as bad hygiene.

[TheCrowing]

When they get right up in the morning. Like.. what about laying around for a while? Is eating as soon as you open your eyes that important?

And long fingernails. That's a huge turn off for obvious reasons.

[Rainbow Dash]

Originally Posted by Acheron

Yeah, seriously. Just because something is "meant to be there" doesn't mean it looks good when left ungroomed. Clipped your fingernails recently? And saying "hairy like a man" illustrates quite nicely why I don't like it. I like my girls feminine (which also precludes big muscles, deep gravelly voices, etc).

Honestly, I agree with you. I'm bisexual and like feminine girls too. If I was into masculine girls then I may as well go with a man :/

[ChaosControl]

Not being spontaneous.

I dunno if that makes a lot of sense, but if they don't make me laugh, or do something interesting, or initiate any sort of excitement within the relationship, it's a bummer.

Of course, there's such a thing as being too spontaneous. I need the right balance.

[Gaia]

Oh yeah, forgot to mention. Seriously not a fan of hairy chests. Can't explain it, but it just weirds me out.

[The Morrigan]

Originally Posted by Gaia

Oh yeah, forgot to mention. Seriously not a fan of hairy chests. Can't explain it, but it just weirds me out.

Haha. For me it depends. Some people look quite good with hairy chests like Hugh Jackman but then other people would just look weird e.g Taylor Lautner