TeenHelp
Get Advice Quick Ask Support Forums Today's Posts Chat Room

Get Advice Connect with TeenHelp Resources
HelpLINK Chat and Live Help Facebook     Twitter     Tumblr     Instagram    Safety Zone
   Hotlines
   Alternatives
   Calendar


You are not registered or have not logged in
Hello guest! (Not a guest? Log in above!) As a guest you can submit help requests, create and reply to Forum posts, join our Chat Room and read our range of articles & resources. By registering you will be able to get fully involved in our community and enjoy features such as connect with members worldwide, add friends & send messages, express yourself through a Blog, find others with similar interests in Social Groups, post pictures and links, set up a profile and more! Signing up is free, anonymous and will only take a few moments, so click here to register now!



Sex and Puberty For questions related to sex, puberty, birth control and sexual health, ask here!

Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Rate Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
PlayingPretend Offline
Member
I've been here a while
********
 
PlayingPretend's Avatar
 
Name: Elliotte
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Location: California

Posts: 1,375
Points: 20,004, Level: 20
Points: 20,004, Level: 20 Points: 20,004, Level: 20 Points: 20,004, Level: 20
Join Date: October 19th 2009

Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 17th 2011, 02:30 AM

I'm curious...

Personally, I love oral (giving... not so much receiving). I love the texture, I love the feel, I love the taste, I love the process, and for me, this process would be interrupted and not as pleasureable if I were to have him wear a condom during it. That said, I know that for some women, a condom is the difference between what makes oral a "no-no" and what makes it bearable. But I was wondering, what are the primary differences as far as sensation and technique? I imagine you can't feel as much through the condom as without one; are blowjobs still pleasureable even wearing a condom?

Pardon my naivite.


If you feel you'd like additional support or to speak further with me, you can contact me through my personal Tumblr, Love Like An Hourglass (click), or PM me through TH.


  (#2 (permalink)) Old
Sythan Offline
Our life is what we make it
I've been here a while
********
 
Sythan's Avatar
 
Name: Nick (Or Nico)
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Location: East Bay Area, California

Posts: 1,111
Points: 14,618, Level: 17
Points: 14,618, Level: 17 Points: 14,618, Level: 17 Points: 14,618, Level: 17
Join Date: December 25th 2010

Re: Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 17th 2011, 05:02 AM

I believe on the subject of condom use, it differs for everyone. Personally, I can't feel a damn thing if a condom is used, so I don't use them. I resign myself to not have spur of the moment sex, get my sexual partners and I tested before sex if it's a first time or they have another partner, and for myself to get regular STD tests and an HIV/AIDS Test every 3-6 months.


When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.

GAY PRIDE!!!!!!
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
Coffee. Offline
Condom Queen
Jeez, get a life!
***********
 
Coffee.'s Avatar
 
Name: Traci
Age: 31
Pronouns: she/her/hers

Posts: 7,405
Points: 95,373, Level: 44
Points: 95,373, Level: 44 Points: 95,373, Level: 44 Points: 95,373, Level: 44
Blog Entries: 639
Join Date: October 29th 2009

Re: Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 17th 2011, 07:54 PM

I wouldn't think you would be able to feel much, there is a layer between the mouth and the penis, and a lot of the pleasure comes from small movements of the tongue. However, I'm not a guy, would not be the master of the subject. I usually never use one for oral, since my boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and I trust him. I would just experiment to find out. Get flavored ones! Hahaha.
Have a great day!


something burning?
  (#4 (permalink)) Old
PlayingPretend Offline
Member
I've been here a while
********
 
PlayingPretend's Avatar
 
Name: Elliotte
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Location: California

Posts: 1,375
Points: 20,004, Level: 20
Points: 20,004, Level: 20 Points: 20,004, Level: 20 Points: 20,004, Level: 20
Join Date: October 19th 2009

Re: Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 17th 2011, 08:13 PM

I was hoping to find something more like personal experience to go on, and I figured TH would be a good place to ask.

Like I said, having him wear a condom during oral would probably ruin the experience for me, seeing as what turns me on is everything I listed.



If you feel you'd like additional support or to speak further with me, you can contact me through my personal Tumblr, Love Like An Hourglass (click), or PM me through TH.


  (#5 (permalink)) Old
Sythan Offline
Our life is what we make it
I've been here a while
********
 
Sythan's Avatar
 
Name: Nick (Or Nico)
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Location: East Bay Area, California

Posts: 1,111
Points: 14,618, Level: 17
Points: 14,618, Level: 17 Points: 14,618, Level: 17 Points: 14,618, Level: 17
Join Date: December 25th 2010

Re: Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 18th 2011, 02:13 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by PlayingPretend View Post
I was hoping to find something more like personal experience to go on, and I figured TH would be a good place to ask.

Like I said, having him wear a condom during oral would probably ruin the experience for me, seeing as what turns me on is everything I listed.
If you both get tested for STDs, or know for a fact he's clean, then forget the condom.


When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive - to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.

GAY PRIDE!!!!!!
  (#6 (permalink)) Old
Jaguar Offline
Member
I've been here a while
********
 
Jaguar's Avatar
 
Name: Stephen Davis
Age: 43
Gender: Male
Location: Flatland

Posts: 1,678
Points: 15,150, Level: 17
Points: 15,150, Level: 17 Points: 15,150, Level: 17 Points: 15,150, Level: 17
Join Date: January 6th 2009

Re: Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 18th 2011, 03:51 PM

You can definitely feel it through the condom but it feels a whole lot better without. If he's a random or you know he's been playing around you might want to have him wear one. One of the things ER intake nurses check for is oral gonorrhea (yes, eww) so you can get STDs from oral. If you know him well and you know who he's been having sex with then leave it off.


What just happened?
1 user(s) liked this post or found it helpful.
  (#7 (permalink)) Old
PlayingPretend Offline
Member
I've been here a while
********
 
PlayingPretend's Avatar
 
Name: Elliotte
Age: 32
Gender: Female
Location: California

Posts: 1,375
Points: 20,004, Level: 20
Points: 20,004, Level: 20 Points: 20,004, Level: 20 Points: 20,004, Level: 20
Join Date: October 19th 2009

Re: Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 18th 2011, 05:27 PM

Why does everyone seem to think this applies to me.

I appreciate the information but I can proudly say I'm aware of how to practice safe sex. xD With my current situation, he's my partner and has been for a while, so I'd like to think I know him well (hehe). I also know that he's clean, and I know that I am his first, so.

The point of my question was because my sister and I had been talking with one another and she mentioned a condom during oral and it made me wonder about the differences between oral with a condom on and one without.


If you feel you'd like additional support or to speak further with me, you can contact me through my personal Tumblr, Love Like An Hourglass (click), or PM me through TH.


  (#8 (permalink)) Old
DeletedAccount46
Guest
 
DeletedAccount46's Avatar
Edit avatar
 

Posts: n/a

Re: Can you feel oral through a condom? - July 18th 2011, 06:48 PM

I don't think it would be much fun to do a blowjob with a condom. Even when I was doing blowjobs casually I didn't ever use one. I know there's some risk of STDs but I picked boys who were virgins so it reduced the risk a lot.
Closed Thread

Bookmarks

Tags
condom, feel, oral


Posting Rules
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off


 
User Infomation
Your Avatar

Latest Articles & News
- by Rob
- by Rob

Advertisement



All material copyright ©1998-2024, TeenHelp.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct | Complaints | Mobile

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
Theme developed in association with vBStyles.