how do i teach him to kiss?

[snakewhisperer28]

so i have a boyfriend, and im his first girlfriend. hes never done ANYTHING with a girl...so ive basically got to teach him everything. Im use to being with guys who are more experienced than me. so this is new territory having to be the teacher. I love this guy... but when we make out he dosent know what hes doing. i try to guide him w/o him knowing but hes just so excited to be making out that he dosent pay attention to my small hints. So how do i teach him how to kiss better? or will he just eventually learn? i dont wanna hurt his feelings by telling him hes not great at kissing.

[blumemusik♫]

You don't need to necessarily tell him he's BAD. Just say something along the lines of "maybe we can try..." or "why don't you..."

Or think back to when YOU were being taught, what did guys say to you to tell you what to do?

If the worst comes to the worst though, I don't think he'd be too offended if you just said something like "It would be nicer for me if you..."

Hope the kissing gets better soon <3

[justfallinginlove]

I've had this happen before...I personally chose to 'play a little game.' Basically to make him feel like hes at the same level, propose that you take turns showing the other new tricks. You can looks some really fun ones up online. He becomes a better kisser, and you get to have fun in the meantime, and nobody is offended. Good luck!! <3

[Madeleine.Claire]

The 2nd guy that I made out with, basically taught me how to kiss.
While we were making out he'd say things like "open your mouth more". Not in a rude way, but because he was pretty much showing me how.
Chances are that this guy knows he's not the greatest kisser out there, and while it can be harder for guys to accept help with things like that than girls, you can talk to him and communicate that you want to make it better for both of you!

[Ambiance]

I've dealt with this before. The only real issue is that my boyfriend would get too scared to make out for a while; like, it would be going fine, and then he'd get freaked out. The first thing you have to do is convince him that he's doing fine, and it's enjoyable for you. THEN give him small guidances, like, "Use a little less tongue", or "Open your mouth less", etc.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

I think you could teach him by leading. Yeah, there's always talking him through it, but that can get a bit awkward sometimes or ruin the moment, so just lead. Hope that makes sense.

[Clitless]

Eventually you'll both grow into kissing each other. Every time you're with someone new, it's a whole new experience. I think you have to learn to kiss him the same as he has to learn to kiss you. If that makes any sense at all.

[Heartlines.]

Hey there,

I used to have the same issue that you're having now. I had a boyfriend who I love to death, but I'm more experienced then him. I've had to kind of teach him how to pleasure me the way that I like. But at the same time, I've learned to adapt and love the way he does things. It's somewhat of a give and take situation. You kind of have to train him a bit, tell him all the things that you like, while learning to like the way he does things. I hope that makes sense.

You could say something to him, but he will also learn after doing it for a while. So, it's a little of both. You don't have to tell him that your bad, but maybe make suggestions to him. Tell him you'd like to try kissing a certain way. With my boyfriend, I would tell him to move his hand over a little or do something differently. At first I was afraid that I would hurt his feelings, but after a while I realized that guys take pride in pleasuring a girl, so most them are open to suggestions!

Take care. :]