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How often do you have sex? -
September 7th 2011, 03:17 AM
How often do you have sex? By sex, I mean stuff with hands and mouths too. And are you in a relationship and how long has it been going for?
My partner and I have been together three years and I seriously can't remember the last time we had sex :-S Ever mind the Rule of Three: Three times what thou givest returns to thee: This lesson well, thou must learn: Thee only gets what thou dost earn.
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September 7th 2011, 03:23 AM
My boyfriend and I live a bit more than an hour away from each other, so its not that often that we see one another. So when we see each other, we kind have to make up forr lost time. When were at our cottages (they're on the saame lake), or I stay at his house for a couple days, we have sex at least once a day. Usually more
 Weve been dating for 14 months now.
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September 7th 2011, 03:55 AM
When me and my boyfriend are together, I'd say about 3-4 times before either of us goes home. We live about a half hour away but our schedules get in the way sometimes. However, we have sex often when we can. That included foreplay too (oral, kissing..etc.).
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 7th 2011, 04:05 AM
Have been in a relationship for about a year and 10 months now. My boyfriend lives quite a way away so when I do get to see him for the weekend I'd say maybe 2 or 3 times a day not including hands and mouth stuff alone as that's usually foreplay. Although we both have very high sex drives and sex is a prominent part in our relationship
 I think it's because we get most of the talking done during the week ;D 
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 7th 2011, 07:28 AM
I've been in two LDRs, and though I didn't have sex in my first, whenever we got the chance to see each other, we were essentially daily sex fiends. It'd be the same with this relationship, only we do have sex.
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September 7th 2011, 09:31 AM
Well, my boyfriend and I stay at each others houses 1 night a week, and in that night its probably 3/4 times
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September 7th 2011, 10:08 AM
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now
 He only lives 3 streets away from me, so generally about 2 - 7 times per week  Only on weekends though, since we have school 4 days a week, we get Mondays off since we're seniors.
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 7th 2011, 11:03 AM
My boyfriend and I have been together 3 months.
We do 'stuff' every time we see each other (oral sex, fingering, etc), so about 2 or 3 times a week. 
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September 7th 2011, 01:15 PM
Well, me and my girlfriend used to have sex probably on an average of around 20 times a week, but since she's been pregnant it's gone down to about every other day.
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September 7th 2011, 02:48 PM
My boyfriend & I have been dating about 7-8 months. How much sex we have kinda depends on where he's living.
When he's living with his parents, we have sex about six times a week maybe? If he's living with his grandparents, we have sex like three times a week. Lucky for me, he just moved back home.
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September 7th 2011, 04:56 PM
Been with my boyfriend for 8 months before we had sex for the first time. It's now going on 11 months together and we've had sex 4 times total. But we've fooled around countless amount of times before that.
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September 7th 2011, 05:24 PM
As of 2 weeks ago before my girlfriend of 4 years and I broke up, it was only like.. once every other month. It used to be so much more often, but it slowly died down for some reason.
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September 7th 2011, 06:12 PM
Actual sex, only like every couple of weeks, especially in the last few months, due to my disappearing sex drive and not many places to do it. Other stuff, maybe once a week?? (same reasons, really.)
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 7th 2011, 06:51 PM
I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. Its been about 9-10 months since we last had sex, we only see eachother at the weekend and then we're either staying with his mum or my parents, so we dont really get as much as we'd like to at the moment. As for other stuff, most weekends except when we're staying with his mum.
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 10th 2011, 07:14 AM
Me and my gal of 2 years enjoy each other as often as 5 times a week haha. Nothing feels better than making mah lady feel good. =)
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 10th 2011, 08:39 AM
My boyfriend and I are in different states (I'm away for uni), when he visits I'd say we have sex every day, not more than twice as I'm usually too tired from uni.
I feel a little bad sometimes when I know he really wants it and I'm falling asleep
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 12th 2011, 04:47 AM
Whenever the situation presents itself, and when I'm capable of doing it safely. No, I'm not in a relationship.
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 12th 2011, 11:54 AM
Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we usually have sex/foreplay abouttt 5 times a week? that could be like 5 days or more than once a day etc
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September 12th 2011, 05:21 PM
It depends on what is going on. Usually a few times a month depending on what is going on. It's not about how many times you do it. It's about loving every second of it
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September 12th 2011, 08:35 PM
I haven't for two weeks, my boyfriend is away at university and I don't get to see him til Christmas :/
When he was here, every other day, or at least every possible opportunity.
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September 12th 2011, 10:14 PM
When I moved in with Craig, we had sex about once a day or every other day.
Now we have sex about once a week. I don't like having sex all the time. Plus, I get off, and enjoy foreplay more.  Not all those who wander are lost. |
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September 14th 2011, 09:04 AM
NEVER
Not by choice... it just hasn't happened  I'm single ATM. I havn't had a BF whilst over the age of consent so :P
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September 14th 2011, 10:38 AM
It depends really, like this week we've only had sex once because of ridiculous work hours but usually we have sex three or four times a week and we've been together for nearly a year.
I even heard your mamma wanted some of this...
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 14th 2011, 08:30 PM
It can vary from a good few times a week to once every few weeks, depending on how often we see each other, what other things are planned that week and when siblings and parents are out of the house. Recently it's been a couple of times a week average, I guess.
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September 14th 2011, 08:45 PM
Before pregnancy : At least once a day.
During pregnancy: Once a week... usually... I am sure after my husband and I have this baby.. we'll be back to normal. |
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 16th 2011, 06:19 PM
i have been with my boyriend for 5 months and i make him orgasm around twice a day. once inthe morning and once before bed. it's somtimes sex and sometimes oral. my exboyfriend i was with for 3 years and we used to have sex about3 times a week. my current boyfriend enjoys me touching him all the time and enjoys just lying there touching me so it just depends on the person you are with and how they make you feel
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Re: How often do you have sex? -
September 24th 2011, 02:33 AM
It is common for a long time relationship to have sexual intercourse because these can make your relation more romantic and sweet. And there is no wrong if you have sex twice a week or 4 times a month, that can also help you enhance your sexual health.
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Doing "Rob" stuff.
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September 24th 2011, 07:37 AM
He just moved far away, so...never.
 But when he was here, it was maybe once a week. At most, twice a week. We didn't live together, so it was difficult to find time. I miss him so much. I want to smell him on my sheets again. 
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September 26th 2011, 03:09 PM
My boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years now, I've moved in with him, though I only started having sex/losing my virginity last octoberish... now we do it every 3-4 times a week having been on the pill for about 2 months now. we used other methods before.
I would have expected for something to happen when i wasnt living with him, he lived about 2 hours away so i rarely got to see him, so everytime i did see him, i wanted something to happen but was scared to. Been to Hell and Back But always here to help  |
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September 27th 2011, 05:03 PM
How often do you have sex? - This month it's been 3 times.
By sex, I mean stuff with hands and mouths too.- Umm then the total times this month with sex and oral is about 7. And are you in a relationship and how long has it been going for? - Beginning of the month was in a relationship with this guy who I lost my virginity too, only lasted a week. Then this weekend basically had a one night stand with this guy, but we did have sex twice and we technically dated a few hours. lol! Pansexual. Problematically Pierced. Tainted with Tattoos. Disturbed and Depressed. And a Lost Realist. Got a question? I might just have an answer. Feel free to PM me.  |
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September 29th 2011, 01:59 AM
Not often. When I was in a relationship, it was whenever we saw each other, so several times 4/5 days a week :/
Now it's much less. I still hook up with the above ex from time to time, we're still friends. Other than that, I've had sex with a couple of guys at college, but it's always been a one off and with someone I kow and feel comfortable with. You can't move mountains by whispering at them. Take a look at my art here: http://attemptedart.tumblr.com/ |
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