I know I'm stupid!

[JellyBean4986]

Ok, I know I'm stupid. I lost my virginity last night and he didn't have a condom. I got my first depovera shot a couple of weeks ago, and he pulled out and stuff. But I guess now when I think about it, I'm nervous. I'm not sure what to do. I mean what if I get pregnant? the part that sucks is that with depo you don't get a periode, so its not like I can wait and see if it comes. I have to go to the doctors in a few days, do you think I should say somthing and have a pregnacy test, or am I just over reacting?

[Heartlines.]

The fact that you're on birth control, and he pulled out makes the chances of being pregnant very slim. HOWEVER, it's still possible. You never know. There has been girls on birth control who have gotten pregnant. He may have pulled out, but there is also liquid that uncontrollably comes from his penis called pre-cum. There is some sperm within pre-cum. But only a little comes out. Like I said, the chances of you being pregnant are slim. I wouldn't worry about it too much. But to be on the safe side, I would mention it to your doctor and get a pregnancy test. you can also buy one. It's best to get one so you know for sure. But for now, just relax. If you are pregnant, then we'll figure out what to do from there. Good luck<3

[Aletheia*]

As Lyndsee said, the chances are slim since you did take precautions. However, even WITH precautions, every time you have sex, it posts a risk for pregnancy and STI's being transmitted.

If you're going to the doctor within a few days, there is no way you'd be able to get a pregnancy test done since it would be too early to tell.

[Sythan]

Originally Posted by Amoroso

He may have pulled out, but there is also liquid that uncontrollably comes from his penis called pre-cum.

Not all males produce pre-cum.

While it's unlikely you're pregnant, highly unlikely, there is still a possibility.

[Angel]

You're being paranoid. While there is a chance that you may get pregnant even on depo provera, it is extremely unlikely. The fact that he withdrew before he ejaculated makes it even more unlikely. The chances are miniscule, even though they are there no matter what precautions you may take. Since this only happened last night, there is no use in taking a pregnancy test so soon. Even if his sperm were to fertilize an egg, it would take longer than a few days to detect a pregnancy.

If there is no concern for STIs, it's not really "stupid" to go condomless if you choose. Some couples prefer it and have not had any pregnancy scares.

[blumemusik♫]

Like the others have said. If you've been together a while, and you trust him, and you're sure he has no STIs, then I'm sure there's no harm in going without a condom, (as long as you're on birth control.)

Obviously there's a slim risk with the depo shot, so it's up to you whether you want to be extra extra safe and use condoms or not.

[Unicorn ♥✿]

The chances are awfully small! He pulled out AND you are on BC. But there is still a chance, so if you are worried, you shouldn't be. It's slim chance here :/

[LittleMiss]

How are you stupid?
You're on birth control, contraception, the whole point of it is to help prevent pregnancy!
To be honest, you're chances of being pregnant are less that 3 in 1000.
Don't freak out and enjoy sex.

[jackie12345]

how do you know if the guy your having sex with has aids or or HIV ?

[LittleMiss]

Originally Posted by jackie12345

how do you know if the guy your having sex with has aids or or HIV ?

Can I just point out that HIV and AIDs are the same disease?

kthanxbai.

[Angel]

Originally Posted by jackie12345

how do you know if the guy your having sex with has aids or or HIV ?

You ask him to get tested and make sure he doesn't have anything he can pass onto you. HIV/AIDS doesn't really show up like other STIs do. Here are a list of symptoms if you are curious.

A good rule of the thumb is: if you aren't completely certain, always use a condom.

[horselove66]

u're not stupid. just take a pregnancy test! u messed up. it's not u're fault. it'll be ok!