hj to bj what to do?

[lillymay]

Ive given my bf hand jobs a couple times and he wants more.. he wans a blow jow and i wanna give it to him but im scared i wont be good at it. is there a right or wrong way?

[Aletheia*]

We cannot post tips on how to give oral sex. It's against the site rules.

Google will be your best bet right now. Google some good tips on what makes for a good blow job. You can also ask him what he thinks he would like. Don't feel embarrassed by asking him this question. He knows his body better than anyone else, and asking him for a few tips won't hurt. I always ask my boyfriend to critique me after I've given him oral sex, so I know what I do and don't have to approve on.

[Jaguar]

You don't have to worry about being good at it or not. It's not something you get scored on. If you're intimate enough with him to give him oral then you're intimate enough with him to ask him to coach you if you need it. It's something you do for someone out of love and affection, not a contest. Whatever you do for him, it's a gift.

[LittleMiss]

The only advice I would give (and it's not graphic so I can say it) is to make sure you cover your teeth with your lips.
So, make sure that your lips are over your teeth, a bit like when you try to make a toothless granny impression.
That way you can avoid any teeth incidents

[Heartlines.]

Hey there, as others said, we can't give you tips. And it'd be pointless anyways. Because while one male like the particular technique we give, there's no saying that your boyfriend will enjoy the same thing. Which leads me to my next point- ask him. Simple. If you're comfortable enough to engage in sexual activity, you should be comfortable enough to talk about it. Ask him what he likes. He will be able to tell you. Truthfully, he might not even know! (Provided it's his first time with oral sex). Also, if you've been giving him hand jobs for a while, I suspect you've pretty much mastered it (getting him off almost every time). That said, maybe mimick what you do with your hand with your mouth. That should serve as some sort of guide as to what to do. Also, no teeth. It's a sensitive area down there. But then again, it's possible some males could be into that. I doubt it. Also, don't forget to check google out! Take care<3

[Revolution]

We're not allowed to give tips, but honestly, tips don't help anyway. Sometimes, the ones they give in Seventeen are even stupid, it's all based on preference. Experiment, ask him what feels good, and if you are uncomfortable, STOP.

Oh, and use a condom. STDs can spread from oral sex. Plus. there are some bacteria in your mouth that wouldn't be nice for his sensitive parts, and vice versa. They make them flavored, or unlubricated figure out what you like. It's usually more pleasurable without it, but at the same time, I think it's better safe than sorry.

[Sythan]

You won't get better by reading something off the internet, only way to get better is to practice. Everyone is bad at sex the first time, you get better as you practice.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

In addition to what everyone else has said, make sure you at least look like you're enjoying it. It makes it so much better for the guy.

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by Sincerely Yours

In addition to what everyone else has said, make sure you at least look like you're enjoying it. It makes it so much better for the guy.

If she's not enjoying it, why should she continue doing it?

[Peppermint Tea.♥]

Originally Posted by ShannonPants

If she's not enjoying it, why should she continue doing it?

That's a good point. Don't do anything you don't want to do.

However, sometimes even if you are enjoying it/want to do it, you can end up with a concentrating expression on your face or whatever, so I guess make sure he knows you're enjoying it.

[bitesize]

Honestly I don't think there's a very wrong way to give blowjobs.... as lnog as you avoid biting,etc, you should be fine!! It's fairly straightfoward and easy to pick up Like the others said, we can't give you tips here, but google is your friend ~ google helped me a lot on this subject and similar ones actually!! Don't be afraid to ask him if what you're doing feels good/bad etc. And don't ever do something you're not comfortable with!! If you're not ready to move on to this step that's completely fine and up to you. Good luck!!x

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by ShannonPants

If she's not enjoying it, why should she continue doing it?

Yes, this is very true. I just meant if she's going to do it, she should at least show she's into it. I definitely didn't mean to do it if she doesn't want to.

Originally Posted by DemolitionLover

However, sometimes even if you are enjoying it/want to do it, you can end up with a concentrating expression on your face or whatever, so I guess make sure he knows you're enjoying it.

This is EXACTLY what I meant. Thanks for expanding.

[.TJ.]

You can't do it wrong, just make sure your teeth don't hit it.