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September 18th 2011, 06:54 PM
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Ok so I'm a girl who is 16. I figured out that I liked both girls and guys a few years ago but I mostly like guys only from the waist up
 ... In other words im scared of dicks. They just seem utterly gross and I dont think I could ever give a guy a bj. Now here is why I'm confused. There is this guy named Erik, who I like, but im not sure if I can get over my little phobia.. any who I snuck out the other night to see him http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f9-re...f-non-pg-13-a/ there is the story... I really like him.Is it normal for me to be a bit freaked out? Do you think I can get over it? Gah is dating him worth it? halp
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September 18th 2011, 07:33 PM
I think at one point, girls are afraid of them or have a phobia of them. This was never my problem, since I've always been attracted to guys but I think you'll get over it. Maybe watching porn or looking at photo's could help you realize that they aren't that bad. They really aren't.
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September 18th 2011, 09:19 PM
I was interested in guy parts until I was about 18. Even then, I thought they were fairly gross but I liked sex. Then when I got with my current boyfriend, I found myself very interested in his penis. So he told me I could look at and well, examine it if I wanted. So I did and I got used to it and more comfortable with the idea.
It was just because I knew nothing about them that caused me to be weirded out. So you have gray hair and you're only 26
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September 18th 2011, 09:49 PM
I'm weirded out by penises but I like sex. Does that even make sense?
 So no, it's not abnormal to be scared but it's most likely because you aren't experienced with them or don't know much about them. Google can be your best friend with researching such things.
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September 18th 2011, 10:25 PM
OMG!!! I am too! I thought it was just me. :/ lol
But, yeah... I'd rather date a guy than give him a blow-job or a hand-job. Even though I'm a virgin. (Teenager) Sex in my opinion would be different. But, the thought or the sight of it is... icky? lol I think you're just more sexually attracted to girls. Which there is nothing wrong with that. I think you'd get more comfortable with it if you two were dating. I'm sorry if I couldn't help? :/ lol |
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September 19th 2011, 02:17 AM
I've done things, and I can honestly say... any old penis? Gross. A special penis attached to a special person? Manageable.
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September 19th 2011, 03:35 AM
Let me be honest...I myself find vaginas a little scary. I sometimes wonder if I were to ever have sex, whether I'd go for the right hole
 I think it's simply not having as good an understanding of the anatomy and so on. That said, if you ever have any questions about guy parts, hit me up. I know this stuff pretty well 
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September 19th 2011, 03:45 AM
What is the most dangerous snake in the world?
Cobra? .... No Python? .... No What then? .... The most dangerous snake in the world is the snake a man keeps in his pants. Sorry I have nothing helpful to contribute. You reminded me of this joke. |
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September 19th 2011, 04:22 PM
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There's a lot in your story, Caroline, that bears mentioning. First, the scary part (to me) is that you snuck out in the middle of the night and drove with a stranger to an abandoned house at the beach and fooled around in the dark. The fact that you have no experience with his penis and therefore were/are a little scared is the most reasonable part of all this! People who value sex as a physical expression of emotions rightly experience the genitals of the opposite sex as a bit scary not so much as an expression of ambiguity about their own sexuality, but rather the ambiguity (or absence) of the relationship, and hence the emotions. Sex isn't just about the erotic, it's about the emotional, too. For many, the lack of the latter often interferes with the former. PM me with the link of the post you'd like me to respond to.
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