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Loosing my Virginity - September 29th 2011, 11:23 PM

So im finally gonna loose my virginity on saturday, im 19 years old, and its about time.
I was just worried about lasting long enough, I want to last a decent amount of time.
When i receive head I can last for quite a while, is sex going to be a lot more stimulating ? Should I masterbate before we have sex?

Any tips? Best condom types?

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Re: Loosing my Virginity - September 30th 2011, 12:23 AM

Trojan is a good condom brand.

As for lasting, a lot of guys don't last very long the first time they have sex. For the masturbating part, I think it depends on the guy. My last boyfriend lasted longer after losing it a first time, but my current boyfriend is too exhausted after he finishes. So maybe experiment with it on your own? & I'm pretty sure sex is a lot better than oral, but I'm not a dude
   
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Re: Loosing my Virginity - September 30th 2011, 03:00 AM

I like the suggestions given above. Many guys don't last very long the first time, but it could be different for you. I would suggest not doing a lot of foreplay beforehand. That probably won't do you any good in terms of last long You could try masturbating maybe an hour to a half hour before hand, and see what happens. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't last long. If the girl knows it's your first time, she'll understand. If she doesn't, maybe it's time you tell her the deal. It's best not to lie, we can usually figure it out anyway

However, Trojans are a really good, if not the best, type of condom to use. Make sure you read the directions and you put them on properly, and check the expiration dates as well.











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Re: Loosing my Virginity - September 30th 2011, 09:43 PM

Heey!

Some great suggestions already given! Hopefully I'm not too late posting mine!

I'd just say, be relaxed and comfortable, try and not be too nervous, and be honest with the girl - if she knows then she might be able to stimulate even more to help you out

If you do get into the sex, then maybe try changing the sex up a bit - different speeds feel different, so mix it up a bit and you might last longer.

But ultimately, don't worry about it!

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Re: Loosing my Virginity - October 1st 2011, 07:18 AM

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Heey!

Some great suggestions already given! Hopefully I'm not too late posting mine!

I'd just say, be relaxed and comfortable, try and not be too nervous, and be honest with the girl - if she knows then she might be able to stimulate even more to help you out

If you do get into the sex, then maybe try changing the sex up a bit - different speeds feel different, so mix it up a bit and you might last longer.

But ultimately, don't worry about it!

Hope it goes well for you!
Yup, it is not necessary for u to worry about it too much.
   
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