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Unhappy Sex drive question. - November 8th 2011, 08:06 PM

My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. Used to, I was easily turned on by him, but within the last year..not so much.
I can get turned on by seeing things, or even reading something. When it comes to him though, I just don't get turned on. I like doing things with him, but it doesn't feel like there's a drive and I definitely don't feel turned on. It's just really difficult. Seeing his body doesn't, anything he says doesn't, I really don't know what to do. I feel so bad about having such a low drive with him. I don't want him to feel like I'm not attracted to him! Am I just...too used to him?

Has anybody else experienced this?


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Re: Sex drive question. - November 8th 2011, 09:16 PM

Some people just have low sex drives & some people do get "used to" their significant other. Maybe try "spicing" things up between the two of you in the bedroom? We aren't really allowed to give tips here but you can try to do different things.. stuff you normally wouldn't. Google works wonders for situations like these. Good luck!


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