Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Walking Home From School

[Strummer]

School has been in session again for a couple of months now. I'm sort of shy and don't get involved much with girls. I usually walk home from school as soon as the bell rings and play my guitar before supper. The other day, I happened to be walking home and found myself with two girls that recognized me from my geometry class. They just came up behind me, and then they began talking about geometry problems. I do pretty well with geometry, but they were having some difficulty. One girl asked if I could drop in to her house and help her and the other girl with a couple of problems she was having with the geometry assignment. I hesitated, but she said that I could call my Mom from her house. I would have rather just gone home, but agreed to help them if it wouldn't take too long. The girl explained to her Mom that I was going to help them with geometry problems, so we three went upstairs to her room. We all sat on a couch with me holding the geometry book, between the two girls. I read off the problems, and the girls would write things down in their notebooks, as I tried to explain each problem. In twenty minutes or so, I had cleared up their questions, closed the book, and set it down. At that point, it seemed like it was time to go, but before I could stand up, the girl to my right started running her right hand up and down my jeans and then around my crotch. I know I should have jumped up and got out of there, but I just sat there--stunned, guess. I could feel myself getting a hard-on. [Edited by Boxxy] She then gave me a hand-job. I quickly pulled my clothes up, said good-bye, and headed out the door. I've seen the girls again off and on as I walk home, and they claim they are having more trouble with geometry again. Should I decline help or stop off at her house again, knowing what happened before? Being inexperienced, is this something that girls do and should I go along with it?

[Aletheia*]

Hi there!

I'll be the first to tell you that these girls are persistent, and are using school as a way of trying to get in your pants. Normally, this wouldn't be a bad thing, but since this was done against your will (though you allowed it to happen), I would ignore their requests for help knowing what happened before, unless you chose to go. Were you comfortable with the situation? Would you mind if it happened again? Would you be upset if this was the only thing happened, and a relationship didn't start? These are all important, and the way you feel is the most important. If were comfortable with it, awesome! That's what matters most. But, if you weren't, then I wouldn't suggest going back to her home to help with her problems, or if you did, I wouldn't go up to her room.

Again, this isn't something girls normally do. You just need to be careful since you don't really know these girls, and though it's unlikely you may contract an STI through simple hand jobs, but it's always better to be safe than sorry.

If you DO go back to her home again, and she tries to pull this stunt and you aren't comfortable with, tell her no and leave. There is nothing wrong with saying the word no. You may feel guilt, but it's not healthy to let that continue, especially if you're uncomfortable with the situation.

[Jaguar]

Mmmmm. What's wrong with this story?

[leavemealone]

They seem like...whores. Sorry but its true. They're acting stupid to get you to take your pants off. Don't accept that invitation unless you want trouble...

[Xx.Shes.Unbroken.xX]

LOL I'm sorry. But, normally girls don't do that unless they are a whore. Some guys would love what she did, but I don't think you do. So, I would tell them that you can't help them anymore. They might try to pull it again. But, if you enjoyed it.. go ahead!! Lol free pass to hand-job heaven for a guy, I guess.

[Acheron]

If you want another handjob from her, or maybe more, go "help her with geometry" again. If you didn't, don't. And remember, if a girl starts doing something that you don't want, feel free to tell her no.

[kayla1234]

Definitely whores... but hey, you're a guy and no one would judge you if you let it happen again (okay, actually of course they would if anyone from your school found out.. but still....)

Just make sure that:
1. no one from your school finds out, unless you think it'll boost your status or something.. (i dont know... some guys think they look better if they are getting girls like you did..) It could get you a bad rep though...
2. your parents don't find out.. I'm just assuming that would end terribly
3. it's something you want.. you aren't just being pressured..
4. things don't go farther where you'd be at risk for getting an STI..

Either way, if you go over again they willll try to do the same exact thing. It's pretty much a guarantee. It's just a matter of if you want it to happen. You can still go over and say no, but it'd be better to avoid the whole thing.. they will most likely put a ton of pressure on you if you try to say no or will just start talking badly of you if you still refuse.. it's just the way a lot of girls are.. :/

[QuantumModulus]

My job as a math tutor isn't half as exciting...

You've already gotten solid advice here, so now it's just up to you to follow through. If you enjoy what these girls are doing (which is, simply, using homework as an excuse to get into your pants), then I suppose there isn't anything wrong with it. But if you don't like this very forward advance, then you need to voice your opinion - or risk being pushed into something you don't want to do. Assert yourself.

[Strummer]

I wanted to dash off a quick note here in the library to say thanks for everyone's replies. I was uncomfortable with the situation on the one hand because I was surprised by what happened, not knowing that it was even possible, along with being "forced" to do something without my input. Also, the other girl just sitting there watching (not involved) furthered my discomfort as I felt like I was "on display". On the other hand, the hand-job felt extremely good. This is embarrassing to say, but I usually masturbate once or twice a week, and I go about 10 or 15 minutes and it's over. With this girl, I didn't time it, but it seemed to go on for a lot longer. I can see that there's a lot of excitement with a girl giving me pleasure, as I didn't know a hand-job could feel so good. There is one complication. The girl's Mom called my Mom to say how much she appreciated me helping her daughter with her geometry problems. So, to avoid looking bad, I've agreed to stop off at her house to help her this afternoon after school again. But with the advice I received here, I think I'm ready to say no to any repeat of the other day's activities.

[The Goblins Blade]

I must say you are one lucky guy, i would kill to have two girls do that to me

[Strummer]

Originally Posted by The Goblins Blade

"I must say you are one lucky guy, i would kill to have two girls do that to me "

Well, it's just one girl doing the action with the other one watching intently. As mentioned earlier, I agreed to help them once again after school today. Once we were through with the geometry problems, the one girl started doing what she did the other day, but I was ready for her, just said no, and started to get up from the couch. However, as I stood, this time she started kissing me on my right cheek, and that surprised me enough to slow me down and quickly she unzipped my pants and slid down my jeans and shorts, then pushed me down on the couch. [Edited by Boxxy] I know I thought that I could say no to this, but now I don't know if I have the will power to avoid it.

[MichWolverineFreak]

Personally, I would, but Im a loser... with a godlike body.
Your embarassed that you masturbate once or twice a week? My average is 3 times a day...

[Strummer]

Originally Posted by MichWolverineFreak

" . . . Your embarassed that you masturbate once or twice a week? My average is 3 times a day..."

Well, I might masturbate more, but I live in a fairly strict family situation, and my Mom (I think) would no doubt give me a good bare-bottom spanking if she caught me masturbating while looking at some gals' nude butts in a magazine that I keep hidden behind some books in my room.

[AmazonQueen]

If you said no and tried to leave I'm pretty sure this is considered sexual harassment or maybe even sexual assault. If you don't want this to continue stop going there. and if your parents don't like it too bad. Tell them you don't want to help them anymore. and if that pisses them off I guess tell them why.

The question is do you, or do you not want this to be happening?

[Strummer]

Originally Posted by AmazonQueen

" . . . The question is do you, or do you not want this to be happening?"

Thanks for your feedback and ultimate question. I like helping out these girls with their geometry questions, but the handjobs afterwards are against my family values. However, the handjobs feel so good, and they've gone on twice a week for a few weeks so that I'm now looking forward to them. If I say no, the girl threatened to tell my Mom what's been going on, and I know that would result in a long bare butt spanking for me. I'm confused, but you've given me some points to ponder.