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Sexual frustration - December 2nd 2011, 04:39 AM

Yes the title is awkward but that's the best way to describe it.

I'm 17 and have only gotten to feeling up a chicks breasts and kissing them.

Am I the only one who after seeing all these cute chicks who i could never be with, watching porn, or simply masturbating end up getting frustrated after or during?

Relationship wise I really don't care about fooling around but all this tension and frustration just gets to be a little much.


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Re: Sexual frustration - December 2nd 2011, 04:40 AM

I'm sure you're not the only one. We all have hormones, and we all have needs.











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Re: Sexual frustration - December 2nd 2011, 05:57 AM

I have a boyfriend, but it is long distance, and I get sexually frustrated from just the lack of any type of attention. We all have needs. It happens sometimes. You shouldn't feel any regret for pleasuring yourself. It is much safer than intercourse. I would try changing up your masturbation methods, you know? Try to figure out new ways, it might help your experiences.



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Re: Sexual frustration - December 2nd 2011, 08:20 AM

I know exactly what you mean :\ up until recently I was exactly the same - great relationships with great people but they were unwilling to go any further than kissing. You just have to wait to find the right girl i guess. Or try discussing it with them and seeing what their standpoint is. If you can't approach them on the issue there will be issues when you're trying new things, trust me.


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Re: Sexual frustration - December 2nd 2011, 03:24 PM

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" . . . I'm 17 and have only gotten to feeling up a chicks breasts and kissing them . . . " [quote]

Get to know several girls. If you are getting to the point you mentioned, see if she would give you a handjob after a good amount of kissing and hugging. From my recent experience, a handjob by a girl is much better than solitary masturbation. Do not push to have intercourse for a variety of reasons. In fact, several guys that I have discussed this with say a handjob is overall better than intercourse from their point of view.


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Re: Sexual frustration - December 3rd 2011, 02:55 AM

Its normal, trust me. My brother didnt lose his virginity till about 20 and he was a hormon machine!

Sexual frustation, is just a big part of the teen life; and some teens that even have sex are still sexually frustrated.

But being at the point you are, I think thats a good start; theres really not a set level you should be at - we all work at our own pace.


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