Non-PG13: I just messed up didn't I ?

[The Devil's Advocate ??]

So I wanted to have sex with my dudefriend, and I'm a virgin, and he said he was going to stretch me out first before he put a rubber on...both times we tried this, he never got the whole way in he says, almost did the first time, but still didn't...as he says...now my friends are telling me I was stupid because that could have gotten me pregnant...I wasn't worried before, 'cause he told me it wouldn't get me pregnant...but could it ?

and I know, "you could have gotten an std that way!!!" I thought of that first >.> but I know he's clean...

[Maloo]

Most likely, as in barely a chance at all, it wouldn't get you pregnant. But in all technicalities, it could have.

[The Devil's Advocate ??]

Oh I love you Maloo Thank you so much :3

[Maloo]

Set your mind at ease, but in the future (I'm assuming you're not on birth control), don't let a penis in your vagina unless there's a well-fitting, properly-used condom on it

[The Devil's Advocate ??]

Oh definitely

[Revolution]

Agree with Maloo. Keep an eye on this next mentral cycle, but you should be fine. And of course, use a condom the entire time next time, they have some nicely lubricated ones that can make your next experience a bit more pleasurable as well.

[Jennyjenn1]

yeah not a good idea to have penis anywhere near your vagina without condom on or your taking a risk.

He could have just used fingers if your body was still adjusting to any size.

[MacGuffin]

While him stretching you out without a condom was probably easier, it's generally an unwise thing to do. While the likelihood of pregnancy is miniscule, it is technically a possibility. However, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just do differently in the future.

[Houseman]

Yeah, I don't mean this to sound obvious but he should definitely "stretch" you out with his fingers, or an appropriately sized toy before any of this.

[bookishnerd]

I agree with Houseman. Getting "stretched" can be done in other ways. As far as penetration, even if you aren't stretched, a condom would keep you protected and make it easier at the same time. You could only get pregnant from it if there was cum or pre-cum involved, and the pre-cum would only contain live sperm if he had ejucated within the past few hours or so. Otherwise it would contain whatever else was in its path.

[crissy97]

i agree with everyone here

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

I agree that because it was so slightly, there's not a big chance of pregnancy, but remember that there is always some chance.

[The Devil's Advocate ??]

Well I'm glad the chance was so slight, even though it's there :I but you guys are right, we could have stretched first with fingers :I

[thinkingandage]

Originally Posted by Sincerely Yours

I agree that because it was so slightly, there's not a big chance of pregnancy, but remember that there is always some chance.

Yup, that's true.