So, ehhh.. kind of silly. Pregnancy?

[Ambiance]

I've only had sex three times now. I take birth control, and we used condoms. It's just that the third time, a couple weeks ago, he moved for a bit after he came, which I hear can result in stuff getting outside of the condom.

Well, I wasn't really concerned, but he keeps asking me to tell him when my period comes along. So, like, A.) There's NO reason to worry about this, is there?? and B.) How do I keep him from getting so worried after every time we have sex?!

[bookishnerd]

That's not silly hun. If it was just a few times that he moved, then there shouldn't be too much worry about any escapees. If you have periods regularly, have you gotten it yet? Just to be on the safe side, you might want to pick up and take a pregnancy test to calm your mind. Best of luck! Please feel free to message me any time. I'm here to help with whatever you need.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

It is highly unlikely that you could be pregnant. Birth control alone is great, plus the condom makes it pretty much impossible. Unfortunately, there's not much you can do to get him to calm down about it besides telling him what I basically just said. He will have to learn not to be so paranoid or else it kinda ruins sex. Believe me, been there, done that.

[Aletheia*]

The chances are slim. Obviously, when having sex, there is always a chance of pregnancy, so trying to stop his worries would pretty much not be worth it. He's going to worry. It's a normal reaction. But, you could lower his worries by telling him that with both birth control & condoms, pregnancy IS pretty much impossible.

[Chris.]

I agree with Shannon.

I also want to say that alot of guys will get nervous and may ask about when you get your period. I would personally tell him that YOU will let him know if it is late. Tell him not to worry. I think he may just be really nervous - which is a good and bad thing. For the the sake of giving him peace in mind, tell him to not worry about it as much.

Best wishes,
Chris