Female Advice Preferred: Am I too rough?

[Micky]

My girlfriend and I have a great relationship but after about half an hour of sex she gets too sensitive for us to continue. i was wondering if this happens to anyone else and whether any girls have found ways to fix this?

[bookishnerd]

That can happen to anyone. One way to fix it is to use plenty of lube. There is a point where she will get sensitive. It varies by person. As long as you stop whenever she starts feeling that way, then you should be fine. Trying different things may make it easier and lengthen the amount of time. Best of luck! Please make sure to use plenty of protection. Lubricated condoms may help. Message me any time if you need any other advice (:

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

I used to be really sensitive. After time, I just got used to or figured out ways to make it less sensitive. Just experiment with things that feel best.

[PlayingPretend]

How long has this been persisting? When I first started having sex, I could only go for about 20 minutes or so before it started hurting and became more uncomfortable. As I got more used to it (and was having it daily), I started being able to go for longer and even after I had reached orgasm. So if you both are relatively new to having sex, this could explain it; stamina is something that can be worked on/built up.

[Koharuchan]

This happens to me too. When my boyfriend and I have sex, I start to get sensitive after about 30 minutes because we've just started having sex recently. It helps to either slow the pace down for a bit and then continue, or just simply pull out and take a break for a few minutes then continue.

[Revolution]

I would also recommend use more lube. It makes things a little more slicker, and doesn't wear her as much. This happens to me too, over 40 minutes, it starts getting pretty painful. Lube helps, and taking a small break. Lots of foreplay as well. Remember, lube does not mean you're doing something wrong, women have natural lubricant, but if you want to help her out, the tiniest bit makes the biggest difference.

[MacGuffin]

I start getting sore about that time, or maybe a little bit later. It's not really such a pain though that I cannot continue, it just gets a little sensitive, which is probably a combination of friction and not enough natural lubrication. Like others have said, I would suggest trying to use lube before anything else.

[.TJ.]

How the hell does everyone here have constant penetration for 30+ mins without the guy getting off?

[Le bonheur*]

Originally Posted by .TJ.

How the hell does everyone here have constant penetration for 30+ mins without the guy getting off?

That's what I was wondering.

To the OP: I suggest everything that the other posters suggested. Lube, breaks, and foreplay.

[Koharuchan]

Originally Posted by .TJ.

How the hell does everyone here have constant penetration for 30+ mins without the guy getting off?

I actually have that problem with my boyfriend. It takes a lot to make him orgasm, he usually takes quite a while even when going full force. I guess it depends on the guy.

[Peppermint Tea.♥]

It's normal for her to start feeling sensitive after a bit. As others have said, use extra lube and take breaks. Also, foreplay can help. Remember that sex isn't just about penetration, so even if you have to take a break that doesn't mean that has to be the end of the session.