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December 19th 2011, 04:17 AM
So, I'm 18 but when I make physical contact with this girl I like, I still get erections that I can't control. I've tried masturbating a couple hours before I meet up with her but that doesn't help. I try to hide it but I'm sure she's noticed a few times. To give some background on the situation, we like each other and she's never freaked out about it but I would still like your opinions on this.
1) For girls, if you like a guy but you're not ready for sex, is it gross or weird that he gets erections around you? 2) For guys, do you have any tips on controlling erections? I've asked this before but the tips didn't really help. |
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December 19th 2011, 04:22 AM
It depends on the girl. Honestly, it wouldn't make me too uncomfortable, as long as the guy didn't try to push anything on me. That's when it would get weird.
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December 19th 2011, 04:23 AM
the best way to not have an erection around her is to sperm when you masturbated a few hours before and instead of it being a few hours before make it about 40 minutes before.
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December 19th 2011, 05:35 AM
I agree with the above poster. Instead of doing it hours before, try within the hour or half hour before you meet up. Waiting hours it's pretty obviously you'll get an erection because it's been so long.
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December 19th 2011, 07:20 AM
I wouldn't be freaked out. As long as you don't say you want to have sex or anything, then I don't see a problem if she doesn't mind either.
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December 19th 2011, 02:53 PM
well judging by what the 2 girls who posted here said it might just be best to have an erection in front of her
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December 19th 2011, 08:20 PM
I really wouldn't worry about it that much. It is a normal, natural phenomenon that happens to guys when they are aroused. I'm not a girl, and I'm not straight, but if I was with another boy and he got hard in front of me, I'd probably just think "he's just in a NRB [no reason boner] state right now, or he's attracted to me! Big deal!!
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December 20th 2011, 11:36 PM
I also have had that problem in the past when I am with a very attractive girl (and it sucks, I know). I usually will just try to stay seated as much as possible, and for these occasions that I know I may have a erection I will wear some sort of caki PANTS. I would avoid any type of shorts. I also am very skilled at being able to walk normal - however having my erection tucked between my legs. Just a few thoughts or options...
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December 21st 2011, 06:56 AM
I wouldn't really be bothered by it, although I would be rather disconcerted after a while, mainly because I would think he got turned on by me all the time, which is nice, but it would make me worry he isn't really listening to me or looking at me for me. Hopefully, though, we would both be honest enough to discuss this and figure out that isn't the case. When in doubt about what someone really thinks or feels, it's best to talk it out instead of making your own (possibly completely incorrect) conclusions.
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December 21st 2011, 07:31 AM
I've had exes that have had erections while they were with me, and it didn't bother me. One of my exes tried to hide it cause it embarrased him, but we talked about it. I told him that it didn't bother me and it's completely normal. Not weird at all in my opinion.
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December 21st 2011, 10:03 AM
I won't be freaked out. Its a natural reaction that guys can't control. And well, I have had weird conversations with my guy friends where they have told me all about the things that can make them have an erection. Conversations like that one have made me more and more open minded about lots of things that can't be controlled!
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December 21st 2011, 04:11 PM
For girls, if you like a guy but you're not ready for sex, is it gross or weird that he gets erections around you?
for me i wouldn't mind at all even if i may not be ready for sex i like it idk it lets me know that ur at lest in one way attached to me just my way of thought im not sure about other girls victoria bankson
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Re: Trouble with Erections -
December 21st 2011, 07:12 PM
I'd be more concerned if you didn't get an erection.
For me, only in certain conversations would it be inappropriate for him to become hard, other than that, I love it when my boyfriend (past) have gotten hard around me.  |
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