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I have a sex problem.... :/ -
December 21st 2011, 06:23 AM
Welp this is my problem...
When I have sex with someone I lose all interest in them. I could be really into a guy...but if i have sex with him...I just don't like them anymore. After that I don't have any attraction to them. Its crazy! I have done this with 7 guys. Broke all their hearts.... Its like the term: Hit it and Quit it. :/ I really don't know whats wrong with me....I think i have a comintment problem or something.... Its like as soon as we have sex...I break it off with them.... Does anyone want to guess whats wrong? Because I have no clue... "Haters Make Me Famous"  - Blood on the dance floor "What's the worse thing that I could say? Things are better if I stay. So long and goodnight"  - My Chemical Romance "The tears that stain my cheeks must make me look weak, I wear them proudly, I wear them proud" - Asking Alexandria  |
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Re: I have a sex problem.... :/ -
December 21st 2011, 06:31 AM
Well, if you know that's how it always ends... make sure you clarify that with the guy. So, no hearts are broken or feelings are hurt. Most guys are like that too. Lol it's hard to find a guy that isn't like that. There's nothing wrong with you, hun. You're just not ready to be in a serious relationship. You probably just wanna have fun. (Just be sure that you're safe! Condoms, birth control pill etc.) But, anyways.. if you don't want to commit... let the guy know that. Communication is key.
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Re: I have a sex problem.... :/ -
December 21st 2011, 06:51 AM
There is nothing wrong with you, actually. I mean, if you are unhappy about it and want to change yourself go right ahead, but don't do it because you feel you should be like others and want or have a "real" relationship. Don't berate yourself for being wrong or weird just because you're different than others in this regard. Could you have some underlying issues that cause you to do this? Maybe, especially because you say you just "lost interest" in them, and I am not sure what that means to you, but it sounds like it may indicate some underlying issues. You can think about it, if you like, and if you find the answer is yes, explore a little and perhaps try to resolve them (I do suggest doing this just in case). But you may also just be in a place where you don't want a relationship right now, and that's fine too.
There is no harm in being a hitter and quitter as long as that's something you are honest and upfront about in the beginning. Nothing wrong with saying "Hey, I really like you, but I think all I am interested in right now is to have a sexual relationship, not a romantic one." If he can't deal, he's not right for you. But be VERY careful, for this can easily attract the wrong kind of guys to you, and that's not something you want to happen. So be upfront and no feelings get hurt. You get what you want, and they get something out of it, too. Never be ashamed for wanting a relationship like that. There are many styles of love and connection, not just a monogamous romantic relationship. Feel free to do whatever you please. We are YOUNG
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Re: I have a sex problem.... :/ -
December 21st 2011, 03:03 PM
You probably aren't ready for a relationship. It might be because after you have sex with them you realize that they're not like you hoped. Even though you shouldn't base a relationship on sex and use it to judge if you like a person it is just about the guys that you want. Mabye you just haven't found the right guy yet but, you never figure it out untill you're in bed. There is nothing wrong with that. But, if you find yourself continuing to do this multiple times in the future it might be a problem. For now I don't think you should worry but, if this keeps happening in two years or so I would start worrying. Even then I would just talk to 3 or 4 friends and family members about it and see what they think.
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Re: I have a sex problem.... :/ -
December 21st 2011, 04:56 PM
There isn't anything wrong with you. You're young, and probably aren't looking for a relationship of any kind. You may think you want to find that special person, but what you're doing pretty much indicates that you aren't ready for it. I agree with the first person, too. If you know how it's going to end (seeing as it's happened 7 times) clarify with the person you're seeing to make sure there are no broken hearts. However, I don't agree that MOST guys are like this too. Because, it's not true and too big of a generalization.
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Re: I have a sex problem.... :/ -
December 21st 2011, 05:40 PM
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