Lesbian 69

[BroadwayGirl]

So my girlfriend and I have been discussing the possibility of trying to 69 but are worried it's just going to end up a disaster, but I would really like to try it and think it would be fun. Any tips on how to make it not awkward, but really fun? Thanks!

[MacGuffin]

I've never had any experience involving 69ing that was a disaster, but I guess it depends on what you mean by the word. What exactly are you afraid is going to happen?

In my experience, 69ing is an extremely arousing and intimate act to do; it embodies the taking and giving of pleasure simultaneously, and that can be a huge thing to get off on. The good news is it isn't too complicated to do, either. You take what you normally do during oral sex and apply the same thing to your partner...just while in a different position than usually, but it's not a difficult one.

To make it fun, I would suggest not stressing over it too much. Let it happen spontaneously; don't plan it, because planning will create some anxiety over it that may take away from the overall experience, and a first time experience can make or break something. If you want to break the ice, you can start by engaging in oral in a normal position for you to relax you both and then ease into a 69 by whatever means you feel comfortable. Do other things to keep you both in touch physically and relaxed (I cannot go into much detail here, but I am sure you can think of something, especially considering you know your girlfriend best). So to recap: low anxiety and comfortable environment and circumstances, and know that you can stop at any time if you feel you need to.

Basically, there are lots of things you can do to make 69ing fun. You can look some of them up on other websites, or you can get creative and think of your own. Either way, it is possible to make it work for you both.

[Aletheia*]

Don't stress over it. There is hardly any chance of 69ing turning into a disaster. It just depends on what you think might happen that will cause it to be a disaster. Just don't stress about it. If you do, it could turn out not being very pleasurable for both you and your partner.

[BroadwayGirl]

Thanks! It's more of my girlfriend who is more worried and is not sure if it is worth trying when I mention it. So I think I will try to start off as normal and maybe move into a different position. Thanks for the help!

[Jennyjenn1]

I been in alot of 69 with girls and its just great. Its a shared experince and you feel what you feel. Its very special. Even when you moan it can vibrate thru its so good.

I don't see how this could go wrong. Once you start you won't want to stop. Plus you don't have to take turns you can enjoy each other at the same time.

I am sure you will have a great time if you keep a open mind and haven't judged it as bad before hand

[BroadwayGirl]

Thanks! This is probably a stupid question, but I really don't know much about it... I'm assuming one person is on top and the other on bottom yes? haha

[Skeleton]

I'm sure a quick google search will bring up a more detailed answer for you but that's basically it, although I imagine you could lie on your sides as well and do it that way, I have a feeling I've read/seen somewhere people doing it that way but as I said, a google search will probably give you more detail then I can