TeenHelp

TeenHelp (http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/)
-   Sex and Puberty (http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f6-sex-puberty/)
-   -   Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!! (http://www.teenhelp.org/forums/f6-sex-puberty/t91491-help-my-gf-has-foot-fetish/)

IMaCrunk December 28th 2011 11:54 PM

Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
okay so my new gf is a hottie. she's a cheerleader and d.amn fcuking cute and all...but the other day she came over to my place when my parents were out.

so we started making out while watching a movie, and we both got turned on, and one thing led to another, and ya kno....:thumbsup:

but after she took off my clothes she started licking my legs, then my feet and my toes, wtf?!?!?! :eek: i was hoping she would lick somewhere else kno what im saying, but she kept going at it at my feet...:(

so is this normal for girls?!?!? i know a sh!tload of guys who have feet fetishes and other fetishes too, but how could a chick have a foot fetish?

should i just break up with her?

Harmony♥ December 28th 2011 11:56 PM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
Everyone can have a fetish. It doesn't matter what the fetish is and what the sex of that person is.

Whether or not you decide to break up with her is up to you, but this shouldn't be a deciding factor. It's a personal preference of HERS. We all have things that turn on us, and we shouldn't be judged for it.

AmazonQueen December 29th 2011 12:01 AM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
it all boils down to personal preference no fetish of a sort comes with the tag male or female fetish, if you love her i would asume you'd be willing to talk to her about this first before considering it won't work out.
in a relationship especially when sex is thrown in the mix you NEED communication

Eternal December 29th 2011 03:39 AM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
Just let her know if it made you a bit uncomfortable. I wouldn't break up with her over a fetish unless it is threatening to diminish feelings or something along those lines. She's going to have her flaws, the important thing is if you can make it work despite that.

Chris December 29th 2011 03:49 AM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
Communication is key. See, if we broke up with everyone just because we didn't like a few things about them or what they did then I don't think any relationship would be in existence. In a relationship you sometimes have to deal with certain things that you don't like or want to (and some may be sexual) but if you really like this person you communicate you concerns to them and hope that things change. Again, Communication is key, so tell her that you don't like it, or think its weird, or anything else you may want to add. I wouldn't break up with her If I were in your position, I would just try to work around it and find a comfortable solution.


Best wishes,
Chris

leavemealone December 29th 2011 04:05 AM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
If it made you uncomfortable talk to her about it instead of breaking up with her. If that is going to be your reason shes going to be embarrassed and shes not going to be comfortable ever doing it again. Its just a fetish; everybody has one. Let her have her own fun :) I'm sure you were just caught off guard. I don't think it should be that much of a big deal.

GCCBrian January 9th 2012 08:47 PM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by IMaCrunk (Post 783327)
okay so my new gf is a hottie. she's a cheerleader and d.amn fcuking cute and all...but the other day she came over to my place when my parents were out.

so we started making out while watching a movie, and we both got turned on, and one thing led to another, and ya kno....:thumbsup:

but after she took off my clothes she started licking my legs, then my feet and my toes, wtf?!?!?! :eek: i was hoping she would lick somewhere else kno what im saying, but she kept going at it at my feet...:(

so is this normal for girls?!?!? i know a sh!tload of guys who have feet fetishes and other fetishes too, but how could a chick have a foot fetish?

should i just break up with her?

Just because a girl has a foot fetish, doesn't mean you should break up with her. Put yourself in her shoes, imagine if you had that fetish and someone broke up with you because you have a fetish. If you love the girl, stay with her, but if you wan't to break up with her it's your call.. I personally don't think you should..

DanceCommander January 11th 2012 06:41 AM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
People of all genders can have fetishes. Sex is not a factor in such matters.

Ultimately it's up to you to decide what is a deal breaker and what isn't, but think carefully: it might be a foolish situation to break up with someone just because they have a fetish you don't like. I mean, no one likes everything about their partner; it's impossible simply because we are human. There are things I don't like about my partner. There are things my partner doesn't like about me. It's normal, and it is going to happen with anyone.

I would just let her know it makes you uncomfortable and you aren't into that. It's no different than you liking to perform oral sex and she hating it, for example. In the end, sex involves finding out about each other's likes and dislikes anyway and fashioning the relationship to be a win win for both of you. This is just a part of that. It may be super easy to figure out, if you talk to her. In the end, it's up to you.

Coffee. January 11th 2012 06:45 AM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
Maybe she had a previous relationship with a boy who liked his feet being touched? Just let her know where you like to be licked, this involves communication. If you find out she likes to have her feet licked, that's up to you whether or not you want to perform it. Just do what you're comfortable with.

rizz January 12th 2012 01:13 PM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
you should really talk to her about this and if you decide to break up with her that's your choice but remember that one day you might ask her to do something or you might do something she might not like...my belief is that relationships are just as much about giving as they are receiving please think about that when you make your choice and if it really bothers you tell her.

and all sorts of people can have fetish's even foot ones..i do

Evanesco January 12th 2012 02:13 PM

Re: Help! My GF has a foot fetish!!!!
 
Communication! It's essential in all relationships, but as soon as sex is involved it's so, so, so important. I actually can't stress this enough. Talk to her! Tell her you didn't like it, or that you found it uncomfortable. If you don't tell her then she'll never know that you don't like it.

Anyone can have a fetish. There is no reason why a girl can't have a foot fetish, or any other kind of fetish.

It may not even be a fetish. She may have thought you liked it, she may not have wanted to go any further so used it as a way for her to still touch you without going further, she may have had an ex who enjoyed it, she may like it being done to her. You'll never know unless you talk about it.

If you want to break up with her, that's your call. But no one is going to be perfect. Everyone has some sort of flaw.


All times are GMT. The time now is 04:17 PM.

Powered by vBulletin®.
Copyright ©2000-2017, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Search engine optimization by vBSEO.
All material copyright 1998-2017, TeenHelp.
Terms | Legal | Privacy | Conduct | Complaints