I'm scared...

[namehere1]

So the other night my boyfriend and I was in the spurr of the moment and he kind of put the tip of his penis in. He said he pulled out before anything happened but I'm scared. Later he went to the bathroom to urinate and he said it stung. Also after we were done his penis was soft. Could I be pregnant???

[Aletheia*]

Usually, after something sexual happens, the penis will become flaccid. So, don't be alarmed. It doesn't stay hard constantly. :P

I highly doubt you're pregnant. He only stuck in the tip of his penis, and didn't ejaculate. In order to get pregnant, a sperm needs to meet an egg. I highly doubt there was any left over sperm, or any pre-cum since it only lasted a few seconds, if that.

Make sure you remain calm. The chances of you being pregnant are VERY LOW. But, if you continue to stress about it, you could be putting yourself at the potential risk of missing your period or making it come late. Not only this, but you could put your body in a state where it THINKS it's pregnant, when it truly is not. This is called an hysterical pregnancy. So, just calm down. If you want, take a pregnancy test in two weeks.

[theawesomeman]

If I were you then I would trust him, it's his penis so he should know if anything has happend. However if there was sperm on his penis then you could be. You could even be pregnant if it was precum because it could contain sperm. If I where you I would take a pregnancy test today, tomorow, and in about 5 days. The fact that his penis was soft when he came out and he said that when he went to the bathroom it stung dosen't mean a thing. When my penis is erect and I go to the bathroom it sometimes stings and then gets soft, whether I have spermed or not. There are pills you can take just in case and if I where you I would see a doctor today as soon as possible. Next time just be sure, when you guys are doing that whether you're planing on actually having sex or not make sure he has a condom on.

[namehere1]

Okay thank you. It went in more than once. He says it stings whenever he urinates after he comes. And it did? It's about time for my period and I feel like I'm starting to cramp. Is it good if I start now?

[namehere1]

This happened lastnight..

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by theawesomeman

If I were you then I would trust him, it's his penis so he should know if anything has happend. However if there was sperm on his penis then you could be. You could even be pregnant if it was precum because it could contain sperm. If I where you I would take a pregnancy test today, tomorow, and in about 5 days. The fact that his penis was soft when he came out and he said that when he went to the bathroom it stung dosen't mean a thing. When my penis is erect and I go to the bathroom it sometimes stings and then gets soft, whether I have spermed or not. There are pills you can take just in case and if I where you I would see a doctor today as soon as possible. Next time just be sure, when you guys are doing that whether you're planing on actually having sex or not make sure he has a condom on.

She wouldn't be able to take a pregnancy test just yet as it would come out negative. Conception DOESN'T just occur when ejaculation takes place. It takes TIME. Conception takes about two weeks to occur or finish, and since this appears to have happened within the last few days, her body wouldn't even know if it were pregnant yet. It would still be in the conception process.

To the OP, you need to wait two weeks to take a pregnancy test. Two weeks to the day that this spur of the moment situation occurred. Or, you could wait until your period is meant to come. Either way, waiting two weeks should give you an accurate result.

[namehere1]

Okay thank you

[Aletheia*]

Your welcome sweetie.

If you're about to begin your period, and are feeling cramps, you should definitely be okay. If you still like, wait two weeks (two weeks from last night) to take a pregnancy test. That is the standard when you can take a test and it should give you an accurate result. From my own past experiences, try to get ahold of pregnancy tests that have more than one in the package. Sometimes they come with two or three. That way, if one comes up negative and you still want to double check, you have some extra ones to use.

Make sure you read the directions on the test (if you decide to take one). The best TIME to take a pregnancy test is first thing in the morning, when you first urinate after waking up. The hCG hormone, or the pregnancy hormone, is most potent in the mornings, so you'll get a more accurate result that way. Also, make sure you check expiration dates. You can find those somewhere on the packaging. Make sure you do this before purchasing anything, that way you don't get home and realize you wasted money on something you can't even use

If you can't afford those brand name tests, go to the dollar store and pick up a few. They're cheap, and work just as accurately as the brand name tests. Just do as I said above with these tests. Take it in the morning, check expiration dates, and follow directions.

Just remember to remain calm. You can always PM (private message) me by clicking on my user name to the left, and hitting "Send private message" if you have any more questions.

[Maloo]

And if he's experiencing pain when he privates and ejaculates, he needs to go to the Dr.

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by Maloo

And if he's experiencing pain when he privates and ejaculates, he needs to go to the Dr.

Very true. He may have what is called a UTI, or Urinary Tract Infection. It's common in both men and woman. In fact, I recently had one a few months ago. It's easily cleared up with antibiotics, and isn't transferable between intimate partners (as far as I'm aware, at least). But, if so, he needs to see a doctor to make sure it's taken care of properly.

[theawesomeman]

Sorry, I had a little typo and misunderstanding, take a pregnancy test in about 2 weeks. I'm sorry I thought this might have happend to you earlier, not last night. I must have missed the first line or so, sorry. Just take one in about 2 weeks and you should be fine. I don't think that you're pregnant but, there is a chance.