Non-PG13 (Strong Language): Sex/masturbating

[Alergnon]

I have a few questions at the end.

Okay, what do you think is healthier, masturbating or having sex? Like, I do both. I have sex with this one guy who isn't my boyfriend, just like a pick up guy, someone who I do dirty deeds to and he does dirty deeds back to me.

Which would be healthier in any situation?

A) Someone your dating, you have safe sex with?

B) Someone you have known and do safe sex with?

C) Someone you don't know and have safe sex with?

D) Masturbating?

E) Having random safe sex with someone you don't know?

F) Having unprotected sex with a partner?

G) Having unprotected sex with a stranger?

Questions are;
Which are the following good and considered to be healthy?

Which would not be healthy to do?

My opinion I like all options, whether is sex with a total stranger I wouldn't care as long as we're practicing safe sex.

Masturbating I know is healthy and okay. So I'm fine with sex or masturbating.

Thank You

[Koharuchan]

Someone you're dating and having protected sex. Sex is probably healthier than masturbation, you get a good workout.

Personally I'd never have sex with someone I wasn't in a serious relationship with, but that's just me.

[Aletheia*]

FOR ME (this does not apply to everyone) is sex with someone I'm with & care about (whether we decide to practice sac sex or have unprotected is something we'd discuss). Currently, I'm in a relationship of 3 years, we have sex and decided to have unprotected sex (we're both tested for STD's often, and we've known each other past partners).

I could never have sex with a stranger, protected or otherwise. Sex is a sacred thing to me, and I can only share that with someone I'm in a relationship with.

[Le bonheur*]

I only do it with people I'm in a serious relationship with. I could never just have sex for the heck of it with a random person or someone I know. Because 1.) sex creeps me out & 2.) I have attachment issues.

Masturbation is probably the most safest way to be 'pleased' since you're not at risk for STI's or pregnancy.

[Sincerely Yours ♥]

Originally Posted by believe.in.hope

I only do it with people I'm in a serious relationship with. I could never just have sex for the heck of it with a random person or someone I know. Because 1.) sex creeps me out & 2.) I have attachment issues.

Masturbation is probably the most safest way to be 'pleased' since you're not at risk for STI's or pregnancy.

Me too. I have only had sex with guys I've been in committed relationships with. My personal opinion is sex is better than masturbation, but also masturbation has never done much for me. So it's all about your personal opinion.

If you want to have a friend with benefits, that's your choice, just be safe about it.

[Revolution]

As long as it's safe, I would say either safe (meaning condoms) sex (partner or friend, that's your choice) or masturbation, whichever you prefer. Both protected sex and masturbation are very healthy for you. I prefer having a partner who is somebody I am dating, but really, as long as it's safe sex with a condom, either one is fine as long as you're comfortable.

[Shawn K.]

For me masturbation is definitely healthier because if I go anywhere near having sex again before I'm 18..MY FATHER HAS PROMISED TO KILL ME.

[r_elusiveanime]

masturbation is safe against sexual transmitted disease, safe sex with any of the choice above isn't as safe as it sounds . . .