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January 4th 2012, 12:02 AM
I met this guy and we seemed to hit it off right away. We texted all day every day, and we ended up hanging out a few times. Last time we hung out, somehow we ended up fooling around and we had sex. The sex didn't last very long(he had been drunk, I guess. Long story..) but it happened. Now I haven't heard from him since that night. He totally used me! Now I feel absolutely terrible. I don't even know what I was thinking. Doing something like that is not like me at all.. How do I make myself feel better? :/
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January 4th 2012, 12:11 AM
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January 4th 2012, 12:29 AM
Everyone does things they regret, you made a mistake you let someone do something you probably weren't ready for. I would say be more careful and think of it as you learned a lesson and be more careful with guys in the future, don't let sweet talk fool you some guys are just like that.
We..are a class of human. A class that is built to sweat, bleed, and possibly die for entertainment. We take our minds, bodys to places most will neither see nor attempt. Many may call us insane, but pure sanity is quickly found when locked in a cage to do battle. What you see as arrogance is only knowledge of our limitations, we have accepted our calling. Warrior Class. |
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Re: I got used.. -
January 4th 2012, 01:04 AM
"The past can hurt but you can either run from it of learn from it" (yes I know thats from lion king....but very wise words from a baboon.
Sad fact of life is that LOADS of guys are like this and you can't change whats happened just take it as a lesson learnt |
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January 4th 2012, 01:40 AM
We all make mistakes; the thing you need to remember is that this is in the past. And, yes, I would take the advice of the very wise baboon from the Lion King. It's a great quote, something we should ALL live by.
If this guy doesn't realize what a great person he missed out on, that's his own loss. Not yours. Now you know there are key signs to look for so something like this doesn't happen again. And, remember...it's okay to say no.   I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011 Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011 Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011 Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011 |
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January 4th 2012, 08:08 AM
As others have said, people make mistakes. We're only human. I hope you've learned from this & now you know what type of guys to look out for. Don't beat yourself up over it though.
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January 4th 2012, 09:22 AM
Personally I think it sounds like he's embarrassed about it if it didn't last long... Maybe he's trying to come to terms with things?
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January 4th 2012, 11:09 AM
I agree with forgetting him and moving on. We all make mistakes and the best way to deal with them is to just forget about it and carry on. What is done, is done and if he is going to be like that then there isn't any point in getting upset over it because he clearly isn't worth your time.
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