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January 7th 2012, 08:09 PM
Hello, this is my first post on here so i hope i am doing it right..
Firstly, i am a 16 year old girl, i have been in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend for over 6 months now. We have sex often and i feel i can be 100% comfortable and open with him (but an outsiders opinion is helpful right now!). I love sex with him although i have not cummed yet, and i don't really understand what goes on with it all. (I know it sounds stupid..) He feels embarrassed that he can't make me cum and i am embarrassed i can't! Am i normal to have not came yet? Help is greatly appreciated, thank you xx |
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January 7th 2012, 08:20 PM
Absolutely. Many woman can't orgasm through intercourse(sex) alone! They'd need extra stimulation (such as clitoral stimulation) during sex in order to reach orgasm. However, sometimes, we can't orgasm through sex at all and have to reach orgasm through other ways, like masturbation.
Try experimenting with yourself first. If you can reach orgasm alone, then I'm sure you'll have no trouble reaching orgasm through intercourse...even if you have to use extra stimulation.   I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011 Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011 Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011 Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011 |
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January 7th 2012, 08:35 PM
Thanks for the reassurance! But what sort of age does a girl orgasm? Because i have tried masturbation plus my boyfriend and I have tried many things! Does it just take practice?
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January 7th 2012, 08:42 PM
You might take longer to have an orgasm.
You just have to arouse yourself as much as possible. Maybe you like kinky stuff? I don't know. Stay safe, though! (: Just try different things (positions, feeling, etc.) Good luck.  |
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Proud Military Girlfriend
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January 7th 2012, 08:51 PM
There isn't any set age when you can or can't orgasm. Many woman go their ENTIRE LIVES without having reached the Big O. It just takes time, practice and patience.
You just need to remember to relax! Being nervous or tense will make it harder to reach an orgasm. Being relaxed will make it easier. I may wear the glass slippers; But my hero wears combat boots <3 I love you, Lieutenant HelpLink Mentor 6/13/2011 Pregnancy & Childcare Moderator 11/26/2011 Fashion & Style Moderator 12/28/2011 Social Groups Moderator 12/28/2011 |
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January 7th 2012, 09:10 PM
I totally agree with Shannon on this one. Not every woman is the same, so reaching orgasm is different for each woman. There is also no set age. Some people orgasmed at 14, others (such as myself) didn't orgasm until their late teens. Just try not to concentrate too much on it. The stress just makes it harder to orgasm.
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January 7th 2012, 11:08 PM
Man I'm glad I'm a dude! Being a female just seems so complicated.
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