Female Advice Preferred: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would

Lu82 · 01:17 AM

you take that as a compliment or would you slap him across the face( well not necessarily) but would you get offended at him and tell him off? A guy i used to talked to, told me he like my butt and that he couldnt stop himself from staring at it. That didnt offend me a bit because i liked him and because there was a relationship there, but if it was a rondom guy i think i would punch him.What about all of you?

Dez · Self Expression Forum Mod 4/23/12

I'd be weirded out, even if it was by someone I knew, just because it makes me uncomfortable. To be honest, I'd rather have him compliment things that don't relate to butts or boobs.

Aletheia*

I'd take it as a compliment. Every guy I know has something to say about my "back side", and it really doesn't bother me. Since my rear is my favorite part of my body (it looks the best), I take it as a compliment when somebody notices, whether I know them or not. I'd be weirded out more if it were someone I didn't know, and I'd show it, but I wouldn't make it such a huge deal that I'd tell them off for it.

Acheron

What if he did it like this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ltjbnyvq_SI

Revolution

Quote:

Originally Posted by Acheron

What if he did it like this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ltjbnyvq_SI

This made my day.

Unless he did it like that, I'd be weirded out. Only my boyfriend can compliment that area.

Acheron

Quote:

Originally Posted by Coffee❤

This made my day.

Unless he did it like that, I'd be weirded out. Only my boyfriend can compliment that area.

Sweet. BRB, memorising chord patterns.

Le bonheur*

I get weirded out when someone tells me they like my butt.

~CourageousSurvivor~

A friend of mine told me that her friend who is a guy found my uhhh ....bottom to be quite nice

I got weirded out for numerous reasons. I am now always uncomfortable when he walks behind me and try my hardest to walk behind him. Honestly all people are interested in different aspects of the female anatomy; although I would much prefer someone complimenting my eyes or my smile and not my A^^ ....

Nicole!

I'd take it as a compliment

Sincerely Yours ♥

It depends on the guy. Some random guy? Ew. A guy friend or my boyfriend? Sure. But even the guy friend, it depends on their personality & if it's crossing any lines.

TakeMeHigher

No way its a compliment!

Amberpamber

If it was a total unknown creep...ew but if I knew the person or currently dating them then yes I'd take it as a compliment.

unforgettable00

Id take it as a compliment. Since I think my rear is one of my best 'assets' (LOLL) Im glad that many other people, boys and girls alike, think the same. Sounds a bit shallow, but its true.
When a stranger compliments it, its a wee bit uncomfortable, but I just smile and say 'hahhhh thanks, random dude I dont know!"

To each their own.

ChaosControl

If it was an absolute stranger, I'd run away fast. But if it was a friend I was comfortable with, or a boyfriend, I wouldn't mind.

aloharocker · 02:38 AM

It totally depends on the situation. I mean, my boyfriend literally says the words "I like your butt" multiple times a day. In that case, it's usually cute

However, when a random guy on the street says it (I live in a big city so it happens relatively often if I'm walking around alone), I get creeped out. I'm also super paranoid about such things. It is kind of an ego boost regardless.

If it's a friend especially when i was single & flirting, I totally took it as a compliment.

Koharuchan

I personally hate my butt, but my boyfriend likes it enough and tells me so somewhat often.

However, he's the only one allowed to compliment my butt, unless it's one of my friends joking around. If some random stranger said it I'd be creeped out and walk away.

Whisperingwillow

I would take it as a compliment, although I think that looking is an invasion of privacy.

dreamer1234

I like the compliment lol it makes me feel good about my body

Artistic Soul

Ummm depends on the guy actually. If it's a stranger? Yuck! Guy friend? OK, fine, no big deal. Boyfriend? Sure, thanks! :P

DeadlySin

I'd probably facepalm or roll my eyes. But end up smiling. So take it as a compliment. Unless it was a way older guy. Then i'd be really creeped out.

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Acheron Offline Master of the Black Arts I can't get enough ********* Age: 22 Gender: Male Location: Laying traps for troubadours Posts: 2,008 Join Date: January 6th 2009	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 17th 2012, 01:27 AM What if he did it like this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ltjbnyvq_SI

Le bonheur* Offline Staff On Leave Outside, huh? ********** Name: Britt. Posts: 3,505 Join Date: October 3rd 2010	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 17th 2012, 01:58 AM I get weirded out when someone tells me they like my butt. "I have come to realize making yourself happy is most important. Never be ashamed of how you feel. You have the right to feel any emotion you want, and do what makes you happy. That's my life motto." *- Demi Lovato*

Nicole! Offline Adrians my Favorite, Forever Jeez, get a life! *********** Name: Nicole Age: 16 Gender: Female Location: Seattle Posts: 7,210 Join Date: October 14th 2010	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 17th 2012, 05:45 AM I'd take it as a compliment Buddy\|Live Help Operator\|HelpLink Mentor\|Social Networking Team Relationships&Dating Mod\|Lifestyle Mod\|Media&Entertainment Mod Performance Committee

Sincerely Yours ♥ Offline Member Outside, huh? ********** Posts: 3,637 Join Date: July 4th 2010	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 17th 2012, 06:33 AM It depends on the guy. Some random guy? Ew. A guy friend or my boyfriend? Sure. But even the guy friend, it depends on their personality & if it's crossing any lines.

TakeMeHigher Offline Member Not a n00b ** Age: 17 Gender: Female Posts: 65 Join Date: March 14th 2011	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 17th 2012, 07:32 PM No way its a compliment!

Amberpamber Offline Member I've been here a while ******** Name: Amber Age: 20 Gender: Female Location: USA Posts: 1,054 Join Date: October 4th 2011	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 17th 2012, 08:22 PM If it was a total unknown creep...ew but if I knew the person or currently dating them then yes I'd take it as a compliment.

ChaosControl Offline Shadow ♥ I've been here a while ******** Age: 20 Gender: Female Location: UK Posts: 1,489 Join Date: March 30th 2009	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 18th 2012, 01:34 AM If it was an absolute stranger, I'd run away fast. But if it was a friend I was comfortable with, or a boyfriend, I wouldn't mind. Maybe it's not my weekend but it's gonna be my year. It's perfectly fine to be a happy individual. Take off at the speed of sound...

Whisperingwillow Offline Erin Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: Erin Age: 18 Gender: Female Location: Colorado Posts: 28 Join Date: January 16th 2012	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 20th 2012, 11:51 PM I would take it as a compliment, although I think that looking is an invasion of privacy.

dreamer1234 Offline Member Welcome me, I'm new! * Name: Andrea Age: 19 Gender: Female Location: Iowa Posts: 31 Join Date: January 21st 2012	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 21st 2012, 05:10 AM I like the compliment lol it makes me feel good about my body

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DeadlySin Offline Finding beauty in darkness. I've been here a while ******** Name: Bridget Age: 19 Gender: Female Location: Land of all them lakes... Posts: 1,163 Join Date: July 10th 2009	Re: If a guy tells you he likes your butt would - January 25th 2012, 02:46 PM I'd probably facepalm or roll my eyes. But end up smiling. So take it as a compliment. Unless it was a way older guy. Then i'd be really creeped out. Pansexual. Problematically Pierced. Disturbed and Depressed. And a Lost Realist. Got a question? I might just have an answer. Feel free to PM me.