Non-PG13: what do i need to do?

[tracey1212]

okay so i have been in this situation for a while.
i love to have sex, and i love to masterbate.
im not a lezbian, or even bi, but when i dont have sex i just masterbate
I live in an appartment with three other girls, i have a boyfriend, and i dont want to bring him here beacuse if we do have sex it will be awakard here in the room i share with another girl that i bearly even know.
I think that they are lezbian, and recently my roomate has been changing in frount of me, and the all walk around after they get out the shower, with justa towel on....
I want to masterbate, but i dont want them to know, i have herd them all doing it in the other room, but i dont want to ask cuz im not bi.
i dont know what to do, and i think that if i dont have sex or masterbate soon that i will explode, bc im horney as hell...lol
HELP ME OUT!!!

[Aletheia*]

Just because you've found them changing in front of you, and you've heard them masturbating and/or having sex doesn't mean that they're lesbians or bisexuals. This obviously means they are comfortable enough around you. I change in front of my girlfriends all the time, and I have a boyfriend of 3 years. That doesn't mean I find my girlfriends attractive and/or they find ME attractive. I think you're reading far to into this. If you want to masturbate, do so when you're in the shower. Obviously, that's a private time for you and you shouldn't be disturbed while doing so. Invite your boyfriend when your roommates go out and won't be home for a while. I' m sure if they were lesbian and/or bisexual, they would have mentioned that to you before you moved in with them.

[Chris.]

I agree with Shannon. Its natural to have things like this make your horny, and to be honest, as Shannon said, they just feel comfortable around you. Believe it or not, I go to high school, and my past girlfriends have told me how they change around eachother - and I even know some that will masturbate while being in the same room as another. Some girls are way more comfortable about there body and just don't care who they change in front of or what they do - this carelessness/comfortability does not make them bi or lesbian.

I personally think its fine for you to masturbate - if you feel it necessary to masturbate - then do it! Masturbation to images (mentally or otherwise) does not make you bi or lesbian!

[Revolution]

That doesn't necessarily mean they're gay. I had a similar experience traveling, I did this trip, and I learned that other girls are very comfortable changing around one another, event hat they didn't know. For me, I absolutly despise it, and I would always change in the bathroom. These girls were'nt gay, they just were much more comfortable with their bodies.

I've actually masturbated with somebody in the room before, besides my boyfriend, traveling. Funny confession, I know. But it was dark, she was asleep, and unlike guys, masturbating for us doesn't make the funny "fapfapfap" sound, so it's completely silent. So I don't think there's anything wrong with doing that.

Another thing, try doing so in the shower if you're uncomfortable. That helps as well.

Edit later: Forgot to say, nice name. Tracy/Traci/Tracey forevahh!

[Colors Leave Me Blind]

Just because they do those things, doesn't mean they are lesbians or bisexual. it just means they are comfortable with it. But maybe invite your boyfriend over when they aren't home or go to his house or something. and masturbating is natural. Just try not to be loud with it, if you know what I mean. (;

[MacGuffin]

Someone isn't necessarily lesbian or bisexual because they change in front of you, or because they masturbate. That may just be a sign they are comfortable around you. Lots of straight women change in front of one another, and sometimes even shower next to one another, if you are some place like a local pool, for example, in the ladies' locker room. And if you hear them masturbate that doesn't necessarily mean they are lesbians or bisexuals either; it may just mean you live in cramped quarters and you happen to hear one another.

If you want privacy for either sex or masturbation you can always ask. "Hey, can I have some time by myself?" works really well for solo time. If you want your boyfriend to come over just ask. "Hey, I want to bring my sweetie over for a little while; do you mind if we hang out in my room for a while?" Here's a neat little trick for you: turning on some music or a movie can usually mask the sound of sex. You could also ask if they could just be out for an hour or so. Might it be obvious? Possibly. But it's important to ask for what you want, too.