Non-PG13: Sex - strange hurty pain

[x-gothic-princess-x]

I've marked it down as non-PG13 as might be a little graphic for them.

Basically I had sex with my boyfriend last night. And everything was fine. Had problems getting wet (which is unusual) but once wet it was fine and didn't hurt.

Tonight we tried for hours but I could get wet - so that's my first problem/question

I've been with Kieren for over 3 years now and never had a problem about getting wet before, and haven't slept with anyone else, neither has he. I enjoy the foreplay and get pleasure out of it. I've noticed a slight smell coming from down there, but my discharge doesn't smell neither is it a different colour. I'm due on if that's any help.


Onto my second question/problem.

We went to have sex tonight, and had to use lube as I couldn't get wet at all... and when he slid it in (I was lube up and not tight or anything) i had a pain.... It was like something was stabbing me... but it was more within my hips than my belly. I have the Coil/IUD if this helps ?

whats wrong x

[Colors Leave Me Blind]

I'm not sure whats going on, but I just wanted to tell you I hope it goes away and you feel better. <3 Sorry I don't have any answers.

[TheBabyEater]

The pain can definitely be described from not being naturally wet. As for why you're wet, it's simple: in a way. It's not that you're no longer attracted to him or anything, and it's not that you don't enjoy sex, because I'm sure you do. But sometimes after a while of doing it on a regular basis, us girls just get... tired down there. Try taking a break for awhile, and next time you two decide to do anything, mix it up a bit, do something new and exciting and hopefully you'll be back to normal in no time.

Hope this helps!

[Revolution]

I'm not sure precisely what you're asking.

When it comes to lubrication, it's going to differ sometimes, and honestly, you're not going to always get wet all the time, sometimes, our bodies aren't as much in the mood even if the foreplay is right. I don't think there's anything wrong with using lubrication. It really does increase the pleasure because of more lubrication equals less painful friction. So many men think having to use lube means that he's "Not getting her off" or "Not doing something right" and that's really just a myth. Some girls just don't get as lubricated, there's nothing wrong with that.

When it comes to the smell, what kind of smell is it? Contrary to what Vagisil wants us to believe, vaginas don't need to smell like roses, they have a natural aroma, and it's perfectly healthy and normal. As long as it doesn't smell like something died, it will have a smell. Another thing is that if you had recent sex without a condom, the remaining semen inside of you can actually cause a bit of a smell. That could have something to do with it as well, neither are things you should worry about. Do not douche, or do anything invasive as such to try to remove the smell, it will do more harm to your PH levels and is just unnecessary.

Hips and belly? That's odd to me. I'm going to leave it open for somebody on the IUD, but honestly, I think it may have to do with a muscle you were using in sex whether than something having to do with the actual sex. If it continues, I would see a doctor, but it doesn't sound like it has to do with the sex.

[x-gothic-princess-x]

thanks for the help guys...

the smell has seemed to subside - its wasnt a "Dead" smell it was a sweet smell (if that makes sense)

And the pain, well I havent had sex since because i havent been in mood so cant say if thats gone. but if it continues will see the doctor about it.

Also cool - We have got some books to help us bring new things to the bedroom and get the sex life back

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