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Question um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 12:32 AM

Today my friend and I were debating whether it was possible or not to have sex in our school bathroom (don't ask how we got on that topic xD) at a school dance where teachers might be paying less attention to the people going in and out of the bathrooms. After a while of talking back and forth, we're still not sure what to think of it.

What do you think of bathroom sex? What would be the ups and downs of it? And (not trying to be a creeper or anything) if you have had it before, what was your experience?
   
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 12:54 AM

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Today my friend and I were debating whether it was possible or not to have sex in our school bathroom (don't ask how we got on that topic xD) at a school dance where teachers might be paying less attention to the people going in and out of the bathrooms. After a while of talking back and forth, we're still not sure what to think of it.

What do you think of bathroom sex? What would be the ups and downs of it? And (not trying to be a creeper or anything) if you have had it before, what was your experience?
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 12:59 AM

I have never done anything in the bathroom. Here are some important questions that people may need to answer.

Is the girl and boy both quite while having sex? If not, then your chances of getting caught are increased by alot.

Is there a stall where both people can fit?
Obviously you need room to have sex.

How easy would it be to get around teachers and sneak someone of the other sex into a bathroom?

Is there a bathroom that hardly anyone goes into? Maybe on the other side of the school?

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The adrenaline rush of going against the rules.
The sex feeling
The fun.

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Getting caught
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 04:25 AM

I'm not sure if it'd be worth it. Want a quickie from a school dance? Get a car, do it before or after you go in, the old prom trick. But the bathroom sounds uncomfortable and not so romantic.



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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 05:33 AM

Well maybe a bathroom at home, but the bathroom at a school is probably not the best idea, especially when it's busy like during school hours or during a dance. You can get in a lot of trouble for that: public indecency, exposing to minors, & depending on your age of consent laws there, possibly statutory rape. Doesn't seem worth it to me.
   
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 09:48 AM

Doesn't seem worth it to me either. Too many reprecussions... the potentional consequences outweight the positives of it.

Also.. think of what would happen if another student caught you two... everyone would know soon enough and you'd get a terrrrrible reputation..


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 09:58 AM

I don't think that's right for a few reasons. Why have sex in a public place when you can enjoy it more in a private place? Why not just masturbate in a stall rather than have sex? I've heard stories of that...not a fan of that either though. Lol. No offense to anyone, but just get a room. That's how I see it. Besides, why deal with the fact that people could come in and catch you? It's just odd.



   
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 03:06 PM

Thanks for all the feedback, I showed my friend and officially won the argument over that it's not worth the risk.
   
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 04:21 PM

Since many people already answered and gave you awesome answers, I couldn't help but answer too.

I've never had sex in a PUBLIC bathroom. 1. The risk of getting caught is slightly higher considering is a public bathroom. Not only are you risking getting in trouble (depending on where and who catches you), but the embarrassment of getting caught in the act is punishment enough. 2. Sanitation. Public restrooms are just gross in general, and I wouldn't think about having sex in it any way.

Now, I've had sex in my own private bathroom, but that's about it.











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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 04:41 PM

I'm 99.9% sure that I would never have sex in a public bathroom. I'd be too scared to get caught or get some germs from the bathroom. It just seems icky to me and I would rather have sex in a comfy bed, safely.


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 07:40 PM

I don't think I'd ever have sex in a public bathroom, germs, and the fact that I'd be having sex with a toilet with who knows had been doing what in it?! O.O I've actually heard that somewhere in my like, territory that there is a place that stopped having dances with strobe lights or something because people were having quickies in the dark spots, in front of everyone....


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 30th 2012, 09:04 PM

Yes, I've head sex in the bathroom at school before, at least back in middle school. Wasn't the smartest idea, it was small and had only 3 stalls. Never did get caught though


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 31st 2012, 01:25 AM

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Yes, I've head sex in the bathroom at school before, at least back in middle school. Wasn't the smartest idea, it was small and had only 3 stalls. Never did get caught though
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 31st 2012, 02:57 AM

I have never done this before lol but I don't think I ever would either because I do my best to avoid public washrooms..kinda dirty. Also it would probably have to be a quickie and I prefer to take my time :P It has happened once or twice in the bathroom at home though lol on the counter and in the shower and it is a little difficult with not much room.


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - January 31st 2012, 08:17 PM

I dont even like using public toilets for going to the loo, so I doubt I would ever want to have sex in them


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - February 2nd 2012, 01:03 AM

not the best idea turst me and id do it during the school day not at a dance to many ppl


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - February 3rd 2012, 05:34 AM

While bathrooms can make for hot public sex, there are a lot of cons. For one, stalls are very small and it's pretty cramped. It's most likely going to be uncomfortable and rather awkward, especially if you have never had sex in a very small space before. For two, it's not the safest. Bathrooms are public, and people will be coming out. Remember you are going to have to be very quiet, which can be hard. It's hard to mask all sounds of sex, even with toilets flushing and people talking. Remember, anyone could report you to teachers, so it's not as safe as you think. It may feel pressured and not be as enjoyable as it could be, and I sincerely recommend you do not do this if it's going to be either of you guys' first time. Bathroom sex is not the way to go for that.

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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - February 3rd 2012, 06:34 AM

I've had bathroom sex before when I was in high school. I was always scared of getting caught, but I never did.
There are some people that like the suspense of it all, but some can't enjoy it under the pressure. It really just depends on you.


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - February 3rd 2012, 10:06 PM

Let me tell you a story.
Girl A and girl B are best friends. Girl A had sex with girl B's boyfriend in the toilets in our science block in my last year of school.
Girl B found out and was really upset. She threw a textbook at her (now ex) boyfriend in maths.
Girl B's ex boyfriend then had to be convinced by teachers that he shouldn't press charges for assault.

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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - February 3rd 2012, 10:23 PM

I wouldn't advise it, at all. If it's a school dance, you're bound to have more people going in and out of the toilets then you would normally I imagine so your chances of getting caught are pretty high, even if it's not by a teacher, I'm willing to bet there is a student that'd tell on you or tell someone else and word would spread plus it doesn't sound at all comfortable, you'd have to be in a cramped stall, making sure you didn't get caught and the only excitement you'd get from it is the thrill of doing something you shouldn't. You should just save it for before or after the dance, that way you'll have a lot more fun.


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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - February 3rd 2012, 10:29 PM

Eew, bathrooms are filthy. Definite no-no.
   
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Re: um... bathroom sex :) - February 4th 2012, 01:13 AM

Lol.. I mean.. if the bathroom isn't that gross. It's like.. the same feeling you get if you have sex in a car in a crowded lot during the day. aha.. it's like an adrenaline rush. Nasty bathrooms, I would never. That's just wrong on so many levels.


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