stick of being a virgin

[bigj]

I want to have sex l don't have a girl friend and I am just sick of it how can I get laid I don't care about a relationship just want sex at lease one time

[victoriabankson]

haha man im the same. idk for u guys but it cant be that hard maybe u should go for one of the popular girls. um befriend a girl who might be interested. i really don't know how u can tell just by looking. I try to wear low cut shits and u know, not to be sluty to to let guys know what i have and all. umm im sure for me its easier cuz what guy doesn't want sex really im just scared to u know let it get al over school. but idk maybe just put it out to ur guy friends that ur looking to get laid and all.

good luck

[Shawn K.]

Originally Posted by bigj

I want to have sex l don't have a girl friend and I am just sick of it how can I get laid I don't care about a relationship just want sex at lease one time

Be carefully what you wish for bro... If you've made up your mind that it's all the way or nothing. Then you either need to hook up with a girl who happens to be in your situation too, or a girl who puts out period. The easiest way at my school to identify either of those is buds. Dudes you trust, girls you trust...don't want word to get out that you're desperate or some sh*t.

Have fun.....be safe.... One last time though...think about it.

[Amber]

My advice? Don't just go out and have sex with anyone. You're young and it's OKAY to be a virgin. I was a virgin until I was 18!! It's not something you just want to throw away on a one night stand. It might not seem special to you but do you want to look back and be like "I lost my virginity to HER???" Most likely not. I once had sex with a guy, didn't know he was a virgin, and he latched onto me like no other. It was probably the worst thing that could have happened and I doubt you want that to happen to you. I'm not saying it WILL happen but there's always a possibility. I'd say just wait until you've got the girl you really feel strongly for. Wait until you know it's the right time and not just a one night stand. It might be a wait but it's a wait that's worth it.

[Shawn K.]

Originally Posted by victoriabankson

haha man im the same. idk for u guys but it cant be that hard maybe u should go for one of the popular girls. um befriend a girl who might be interested. i really don't know how u can tell just by looking. I try to wear low cut shits and u know, not to be sluty to to let guys know what i have and all. umm im sure for me its easier cuz what guy doesn't want sex really im just scared to u know let it get al over school. but idk maybe just put it out to ur guy friends that ur looking to get laid and all.

good luck

At my school nearly every girl dresses like you describe. And me and all of my friends all WANT sex, not really wanting to go all the way, but definitely hunting daily for girls that might want to play around short of actually doing it.

Another, problem at my school is sometimes a girl lets labeled as being sexually active because of some drama or rumors. Then one of us horn dogs Makes a move and gets embarrassed, or worse, in the middle of some drama.

[Shawn K.]

Originally Posted by bigj

I want to have sex l don't have a girl friend and I am just sick of it how can I get laid I don't care about a relationship just want sex at lease one time

I was waiting for someone else to give the first advice recommending waiting. Didn't want to break the bro code by sounding like a hater

Dude I wasted my first BJ, which isn't like actually doing it. But I did it for sex sake and bragging rights and all that hormone induced stuff. Ended badly, the fallout has included everything from doctors visits to drug sniffing dogs at the school. (yes from that one BJ). I'm just sayin I'm learning the hardway what our elders keep telling us. There's more to sex than f**king.

I'm going to go back to no skin to skin contact other than hands and fingers. I don't care that I'll be beatin off at my normal rate for some time to come (no pun intended)...and I don't care that I'm a virgin just like 99 percent of my friends.

[DeadlySin]

All I can say is, you're young don't rush it. I felt the same way for a longggg time at your age. And others will probably agree with me when I say wait for the right person. There are a lot of people who rush it and regret their first time. It should be something special. No you don't have to be in a relationship, but at least have some special bond with that person. Otherwise it may not be as enjoyable as you want. Yes, there are moments when you are horny when it seems like a good idea. But when you step back and actually look at what you're doing you'll realise waiting is best. There is always masturbation which many times can be more enjoyable than sex. Either way, good luck.