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Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:10 PM

I have recently found that alot of people have different descriptions of relationship/hookup 'Bases'.

I thought it would be interesting to see what you think the four bases are (from a female OR male perspective).

Here are the bases:
1st base
2nd base
3rd base
Home plate (homerun)


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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:19 PM

What I always thought & what my friends tell me is:
-1st base: kissing
-2nd base: touching under or over clothes
-3rd base: oral
-Homerun: actual sex

I think it depends on where you live, this is what most of my local friends agree with.
   
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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:23 PM

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What I always thought & what my friends tell me is:
-1st base: kissing
-2nd base: touching under or over clothes
-3rd base: oral
-Homerun: actual sex

I think it depends on where you live, this is what most of my local friends agree with.
Exactly the way I view it




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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:35 PM

For me, it's:
1-kissing
2-touching
3-nakedness/foreplay
4-intercourse


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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:38 PM

1: kissing
2: touching
3: foreplay
4: sex
   
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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:40 PM

First base: Kissing, which includes both pecks on the lips AND making out.
Second Base: Anything above the waist.
Third Base: Anything below the waist.
Home Run: Bow chicka wow wow!











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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:45 PM

Always heard it this way:

  1. Kissing
  2. Manual sex
  3. Oral sex
  4. Intercourse



   
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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 10:46 PM

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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 11:15 PM

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What I always thought & what my friends tell me is:
-1st base: kissing
-2nd base: touching under or over clothes
-3rd base: oral
-Homerun: actual sex

I think it depends on where you live, this is what most of my local friends agree with.
This is what we go by over here in Seattle as well


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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 11:16 PM

1: Holding hands/hugging;
2: Kissing;
3: Handjob;
4: Blowjob;
   
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Re: Bases - March 9th 2012, 11:44 PM

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First base: Kissing, which includes both pecks on the lips AND making out.
Second Base: Anything above the waist.
Third Base: Anything below the waist.
Home Run: Bow chicka wow wow!

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Re: Bases - March 10th 2012, 12:27 AM

1st: Kissing, making out, and everything before
2nd: touching over clothes
3rd: touching under clothes+ manual
Home run: Giggidy!!


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Re: Bases - March 10th 2012, 12:28 AM

My opinion has always been:
1st base: Kissing, making out without hand stuff.
2nd base: Anything involving the hands, from manual stimulation, to making out with hands all over boobies and such.
3rd base: Oral (for any sex)
Home plate (homerun): Vaginal or Anal intercourse.


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Re: Bases - March 10th 2012, 07:35 AM

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First base: Kissing, which includes both pecks on the lips AND making out.
Second Base: Anything above the waist.
Third Base: Anything below the waist.
Home Run: Bow chicka wow wow!
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Re: Bases - March 10th 2012, 10:46 AM

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What I always thought & what my friends tell me is:
-1st base: kissing
-2nd base: touching under or over clothes
-3rd base: oral
-Homerun: actual sex
^^This is wjhat I always thought...

However I don't think I've ever, EVER heard a friend or peer use the phrase seriously.


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Talking Re: Bases - March 19th 2012, 03:16 PM

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First base: Kissing, which includes both pecks on the lips AND making out.
Second Base: Anything above the waist.
Third Base: Anything below the waist.
Home Run: Bow chicka wow wow!
yuup basically my thoughts!


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Re: Bases - March 19th 2012, 07:56 PM

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1st: Kissing, making out, and everything before
2nd: touching over clothes
3rd: touching under clothes+ manual
Home run: Giggidy!!
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Re: Bases - March 19th 2012, 08:13 PM

I am one of those people who have actually always wondered. Thanks for making this post.



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Re: Bases - March 19th 2012, 08:37 PM

First base: Kissing, hugging and making out.
Second base: Fondling and manual stimulation.
Third base: Stick it anywhere except vaginal or anal, and rough-painful manual or oral stimulation if desired.
Homerun: Stick it on and stick it in.


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Re: Bases - March 19th 2012, 08:59 PM

1st base: Passionate kissing
2nd base: Touching of genitals
3rd base: Oral
Homerun: sexytime

Well, thats how it's seen in people in my area anyways!
   
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Re: Bases - March 21st 2012, 08:33 PM

1st base - Kissing (JUST kissing )
2nd base - Over-the-clothes touching
3rd base - Under-the-clothes touching (in like 'private' areas )
Home run - sexytiiiiiiiiiiiime

This is the way we do it, but nobody ever uses any of the terms seriously
Plus, I'm not sure where oral would fit in paha.
   
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Re: Bases - March 22nd 2012, 09:06 AM

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What I always thought & what my friends tell me is:
-1st base: kissing
-2nd base: touching under or over clothes
-3rd base: oral
-Homerun: actual sex
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Re: Bases - March 22nd 2012, 11:20 PM

My friend told me it was this:

1st base: Kissing (including french kissing)
2nd base: Anything above the waist, clothes or not
3rd base: Anything below the waist, no clothes
Home plate (homerun): Sex

But all my friends seem to use different systems, so things can be a bit confusing at times.


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