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What do you masturbate to? - March 31st 2009, 07:43 PM

Not sure if this is PG-13 or not...

But what do you masturbate to? Porn? Pictures of someone? Thoughts? Fantasies? Videos? Just curious.

I masturbate usually to sex fantasies of my significant other... always finish good and quick.

Another question: Do you always masturbate to finish? Or just play with yourself a little sometimes?

I always finish. Doesn't really have a point unless climax is reached in my opinion, and I usually only do it once a day.

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Re: What do you masturbate to? - March 31st 2009, 07:49 PM

Your display picture makes this really creepy!

But porn videos, text or a few times I masturbated in-front of a girl while she masturbated, then when I got like half way off she sucked me and I ate her out.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - March 31st 2009, 08:13 PM

I masturbate to Happy Hardcore Music.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - March 31st 2009, 08:40 PM

Normally? Romance/erotic stories or novel, if I use anything to provoke it. Fantasies work wonders, too.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - March 31st 2009, 08:46 PM

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I masturbate to Happy Hardcore Music.


Oooo touchy subject! Porn, no vids (I use my phone), no hardcore stuff though in fairness some of it is kinda wierd . I could never get off to thoughts.... Sometimes though I sorta imagine someone I know in that position (and as always you will find models who look like people you know! )

Straught to the end. The climax gets rid of a lot of the tension and the thoughts. Also I'm under the impression that it's better not to stop, and I usually wait till I'm perfectly aroused to start masturbating.
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 12:09 AM

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Your display picture makes this really creepy!
Hahaha I hadn't thought of that...


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 01:07 AM

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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 03:15 AM

Hmmm Fantasies, Porn, Stories, Thoughts would be it for me lol.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 03:22 AM

Hmm...definately fantasies.
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 03:23 AM

usually like fantasies. I've stopped with videos and pics and stuff


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 04:01 AM

call me weird, but I don't really think while masturbating, I just focus on sensation, the building and peaking of it. I get the turned on part beforehand by talking to someone or watching something, but the actual act of masturbation is performed with complete focus.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 04:19 AM

Sometimes I don't think (kind of like absent minded whatevering), sometimes I entertain fantasies. Very rarely do I watch/read pornography.. and I'm pretty sure I always finish though I mean, it could be variable lengths of time with multiple sessions.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 07:25 AM

Well... depends on what's available at the time. Sometimes softcore pictures, sex scenes/nudity in movies, porn videos, fantasies or erotic text/stories.

I masturbate from 1-5 times a day. Always to finish unless I'm interrupted. One exception being I'll sometimes do it as I go to sleep without the intention of ever finishing.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 03:50 PM

to thoughts of my Girlfriend.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 1st 2009, 04:19 PM

Mostly I use fantasys (spank bank in guy terms) and that works for me. Porn doesn't really do it for me. Because stuff like a business meeting turning into sex usually doesn't happen in real life, so that throws me off. I tried it once with music (wasn't intentional) and that was pretty good, but it wasn't speed metal because its hard to keep up with the beat.
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 01:37 AM

I use fantasies to get revved up, but can't continue with them when actually masturbating as it is too distracting. I'm like a couple others who have already posted, I just focus on the feeling.
It's strange but porn is a huge turn off to me and stories I just find funny. X)
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 08:07 AM

Either fantasies or erotic stories. Pictures do nothing for me.
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 08:59 AM

Mostly fantasies or porn. Sometimes I won't think about anything (this is usually when I masturbate before bed or when I have been masturbating way to much ). On a special occasion I'll masturbate to erotic stories and every so often I'll masturbate while looking at a non-erotic photo (just like a normal picture of a guy I am crushing on). I like to switch it up cause I masturbate a lot and things tend to get semi boring easily.



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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 10:26 AM

Fantasies mostly.
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 04:43 PM

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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 05:45 PM

To be truthful Im not the one to masterbate that often... But when I do I masterbate to fantasys of what me and my boyfriend would get up to or dirty talking... It all depends how good the fantasy has become and how turned on I am if I masterbate to play or finish


   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 05:57 PM

Im horny reading this post about how others masturbate


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 2nd 2009, 06:56 PM

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I tried it once with music (wasn't intentional) and that was pretty good, but it wasn't speed metal because its hard to keep up with the beat.
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 3rd 2009, 03:46 AM

Thoughts/memories mainly. Occasionally fantasies. Generally of the same person

And yeah, i have to finish. Because i get real horny once i start and i need to 'extinguish' that or I won't feel comfortable.
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 3rd 2009, 07:41 PM

Haha. Anything works for me. I have also just discovered music. Speed metal is good!! Especially 'Hate Me' By 'Children of Bodom' lol
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 6th 2009, 01:36 AM

Most of the time... nothing! I just think about it. The building up, and the climax!!

Sometimes... fantasies. I won't go into detail.

Rarely, porn videos. They do get me horny, I just don't need them.
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 6th 2009, 03:03 AM

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call me weird, but I don't really think while masturbating, I just focus on sensation, the building and peaking of it. I get the turned on part beforehand by talking to someone or watching something, but the actual act of masturbation is performed with complete focus.
I'm the exact same way. My best orgasms, from masturbation & from sex, happen when I don't think about anything except how it feels. Not to say that I don't also feel a special closeness with my boyfriend when we're having sex.
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 6th 2009, 03:09 AM

Fantasies do it for me.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 6th 2009, 04:31 AM

call me weird, but the thought of masturbating does it for me.
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 6th 2009, 05:16 AM

Oh I forgot to add my secret masturbation fetish: Anime porn.
I don't ever watch anime but something about massive cartoon boobs turns me on.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 6th 2009, 08:03 PM

I also don't think while I masturbate, hehe. :P beforehand I get all hyped up on stories and fantasies, and after that I just ride the sensation out.


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 02:21 AM

Fantasies or porn.




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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 08:21 AM

The power of the imagination!
On very rare occassion - erotic literature, but generally just me and my thoughts.

Music is good, i'lll have to agree with who said HappyHardcore..
I like listening to trance or general trippy music whilst i masturbate.

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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 03:58 PM

I use my fantasies mostly but I have to agree with scout on this one! anime porn is great, mainly because they do some hardcore things I like that you cant find in normal porn...its too soft and boring for me most of it.
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 09:09 PM

Usually pics, but fantasies are the best.
   
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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 09:10 PM

Fantasy :P Or stories my ex would tell me!


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 09:11 PM

I tend to think about past experiences with my fiance.. that and fantasies.. but mostly past experiences..


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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 09:39 PM

Fantasies are a big one for me. Yup they usually do the trick. Music too. Sometimes, I will read a story, but my imagination is so much better

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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 8th 2009, 10:16 PM

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Re: What do you masturbate to? - April 9th 2009, 11:29 PM

Fantasies...you're in complete control then!! Music does help as well.
   
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