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First time Sex - April 5th 2012, 09:13 PM

To start off, im a 16 year old male and a virgin. I have had the same girlfriend for about 2 months(not to long) but i sincerely love her to death. We both realise its time to finally have sex. And we talk about it all the time. Which is always a good thing. But since i am a virgin, and she is not, I just get a strange feeling. The first time she had sex was with a guy older than me and her. And thinking about him i get a feeling of insecurity. Cause i know for a fact, he probably performed and was better than i will be. I just don't want to be too nervous for the first time and not be able to get up or anything. She always says size doesnt matter. What girl doesnt say that? But in reality size matters is how its always been. Any tips on first time sex, and how to relieve myself of nervousness and stuff. I dont want her to think i dont love her or shes not good enough for me because im too nervous. And to add, both times we planned to have sex when we would be the only ones home, she got her period just a day or two before.

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Re: First time Sex - April 5th 2012, 10:20 PM

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Second off, first time sex you just need to put your nerves aside for that time and just do what you feel is right and try to follow her body language to figure out what works and what doesn't. Also, if your really nervous just tell her but i doubt you have anything to worry about with the other guy. She wants to have it with you and to see what you offer and what your moves are. She wants a new experience and thats with you. But just be yourself and relax and enjoy it.

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Re: First time Sex - April 5th 2012, 10:24 PM

Thanks you, and yes i already told her what im feeling right now. And she understands its completely normal. I guess im just over thinking about it. But then again, at this age its hard not to think about it when its always being brought up
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