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View Poll Results: How would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend wrote erotica?
I wouldn't care either way 21 50.00%
I wouldn't like it 3 7.14%
I would like it 8 19.05%
I would them to write one about us 10 23.81%
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Erotica - April 12th 2012, 09:07 AM

Just wondering, how would you feel if your boyfriend/girlfriend wrote erotica? Meaning the really detailed sexual stories, some have plots that lead to it and some are just straight to the point sex.

I only ask because back when I was in 8th grade (I had quite an interesting group of friends, not to mention other things, I don't want to get into it, but yes I knew what sex was etc...), my friend showed me these fan fiction stories, usually between celebrities. And we liked them, and she started to write some and then so did I. Anyway, basically I don't know about her, but I still write these kind of stories sometimes. No rhyme or reason, I just write well and umm... I know I'm young but let's just say, I've gotten good reviews.

Anyway I want to know, how you would feel if your boyfriend or girlfriend wrote these kind of stories? Would you like? Would you not care? Would you want them to write one about the both of you? I include the last part because an ex of mine continually asked me to write one about us.


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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 09:12 AM

I don't think I would care either way - the thing that would matter to me (snob) is if they were a good writer.
   
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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 09:15 AM

I wouldn't care either way. If it was something they enjoyed, who am I to tell them I didn't (or did) like it.











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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 11:13 AM

I'd be interested to read some. It might give me a handle on what she fantasises about. Actually, I'd also be interested in writing some. I've been told before that I ought to try.



   
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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 11:33 AM

I wouldn't care, they're just writting stories which is a good outlet for emotions and pent up frustrations. It's not like they're going out and participating in whatever sexual activities they're writting about in their stories.
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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 01:03 PM

i wouldn't care as it would be good to read and see what he thinks and to see what else he would be into
   
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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 01:48 PM

I wouldn't care either way but I'd want to read them


   
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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 02:05 PM

I love reading! And I have read my share of Erotica and I love em It would be so cool if I had a boyfriend who wrote them and even cooler if he wrote something about us!


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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 02:16 PM

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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 02:37 PM

I wouldn't mind. If it's something he enjoys, he's not hurting anything by writing it. I'd probably like to read some and get an idea of his fantasies. And I would probably ask to write one about us.


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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 06:50 PM

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i wouldn't care as it would be good to read and see what he thinks and to see what else he would be into
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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 07:34 PM

I wouldn't care either way. It's just writing. Actually, I'd be really interested in reading it.


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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 08:58 PM

I think erotica is a great means of sensuality and sexual expression. It's its own kind of stories/books really. While they mostly all end up being about sensuality or sex, there are thousands and thousands of ways to write about it. I enjoy both reading and writing erotica, so it's all fun for me. A good piece of erotica is honestly an art.

I have/had partners who do/did write erotica. Sometimes it was about us, but many times it wasn't. I actually like it when they do, but if they don't want to, that's cool with me; it's not a big deal. As long as they have some sexual imagination that's fine with me.

However, while I encourage sexual expression through writing, I am VERY picky about what I think is good and isn't. So while I love it when my partner writes, it wouldn't necessarily thrill me just because they were writing an erotic story. It's all about the content.


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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 09:36 PM

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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 11:18 PM

I wouldn't care either, they can write what they'd like, and as said above it could help to figure out what they like



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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 11:49 PM

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Re: Erotica - April 12th 2012, 11:53 PM

I think it would be pretty cool if my boyfriend wrote one about us, lol.


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Re: Erotica - April 13th 2012, 07:07 PM

I'd definitely be interested in reading it, I mean honestly who wouldn't want to read about their partner's fantasies? However, since I am a writer, if it wasn't detailed enough to my standards, I wouldn't enjoy it too much. Yes, I'm aware that sounded extremely bitchy.




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Re: Erotica - April 13th 2012, 07:38 PM

I'd want to read it. But I'm not sure I'd want one written about us. One of the biggest things I love about reading is becoming the main character and feeling the connections they have with the other characters - So if the main character or another character was me, it would feel really weird. But that's probably just me.


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Re: Erotica - April 14th 2012, 11:02 AM

I would love for him to write it about us. I think it's sexy to read what he wants and what turns him on. I love reading it so it would have to be up to par. I think it woukd be fun writing it together.
   
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Re: Erotica - April 15th 2012, 12:53 AM

I would like it, and whether or not it was about us, I would want to read it.



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Re: Erotica - April 15th 2012, 02:50 AM

Okay thank you everyone who replied haha, I don't feel so weird about it anymore. I thought that I was pretty alone in enjoying writing it and reading it to be honest.


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Re: Erotica - April 15th 2012, 03:11 AM

Not alone. I read a lot of it, but I don't write a lot of it... Mostly because I get stuck on the "member"/other words that aren't actually the words of that body part. Which I don't get. ( I read guy on guy, most of the time.) ;D I've actually just lost my sex story writing virginity recently because someone asked for it, not sure if it was good yet (I thought it was okay.)

Actually, the person I'm interested in was kind of the person who opened the door for me in sexual story reading, and I'm pretty sure she writes her own, but I've never read it directly from her... But she does kind of talk about her favorite couple like, almost all the time.


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Re: Erotica - April 17th 2012, 05:24 AM

I'd like it...in fact, I kinda want my partner to write one about us!


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