Pregnant? HELP!

[bentastic]

my girlfriend ejaculated me and my semen was on my body, and I quickly washed my hand and my body, I only washed it with wather, and I just wash it just for a second. after a second I fingered my girlfriend, is it possible to get her pregnant? She feel severe headaches and nausea after a day. and I am worried about it. it was now 3 days after we did it. please reply as soon as possible! We're now worried

No, it isn't possible and it is very unlikely that she would be showing symptoms of being pregnant one or even three days after the event.

[Markus]

Very unlikely. I wouldn't worry about that if I were you.

I feel that you should only be worried if your penis went close to her vagina. Should you have any thoughts about going further into intercourse with your partner, my advice is please always practice safe and protected sex.

[Jess~]

she's not pregnant

[bentastic]

She feel dizzy right now and still nausea, but she rubs her vagina into my shorts where my penis is. Is that possible?

The only way for a woman to get pregnant is for semen to be ejaculated into the vagina. Fingering someone when you potentially have traces of semen on your fingers is highly unlikely to lead to pregnancy, as sperm don't last long outside the body and, in addition, the amounts are probably too minuscule to lead to conception. In addition, if your partner was pregnant, she wouldn't show symptoms associated with pregnancy that quickly. It takes more than three days before the fertilized egg even implants on the uterine wall.

If you're going to be sexually active I strongly advise you use some contraception method(s) so as to cut down on the worry if something doesn't go as planned. You'll both feel a lot better and will be able to enjoy sex a lot more freely.

[Markus]

Considering that you have your shorts on, it is still very unlikely for pregnancy to occur. Don't worry about it.

Originally Posted by bentastic

She feel dizzy right now and still nausea, but she rubs her vagina into my shorts where my penis is. Is that possible?

[Jess~]

there are times where a man will ejaculate inside the vagina and the woman still won't be pregnant.
women can only get pregnant like 6 days out of the month.

seriously don't worry yourself, it's all good

[bentastic]

Are we gonna wait for her next menstruation? She's irregular, we are waiting for her menstruation to come up this month. Yesterday, She already said that "whitr mens" or the whitr thing already come up the, sign of upcoming menstuation, but until now her menstruation didnt come up. Please help, and thank you for your support!

[bentastic]

She's scared, we are now scared, she want to biy pregnancy test, are we going to buy? If we are going to buy, when should we use it? She always feel headaches and nausea, she feel dizzyy. And sometines shes hot.

You can take a pregnancy test two weeks after the incident. If you take it any sooner you are unlikely to get accurate results.

[bentastic]

Her lower abdomen is getting larger and she already produce white mens or a white thingy that sign of upcoming menstruation. but she's irregular,And we read lot of sign of pregnancy and it is one of them, if the lower abdomen is getting larger and some sloght bleeding like when your menstruation will now come up but it didn't you're pregnant they say,, she's now worried and were just waiting her menstruation to come up, if.. it will comeup if it didn't I don't know what to do.

Just because the internet says something is a sign of pregnancy does not mean the person is pregnant. You should never rely on the internet for things like that. If the incident occurred two weeks ago or later than I'd advise taking a pregnancy test to better ease your fears. I'd also suggest that you and your girlfriend talk about contraceptive.

[bentastic]

Im just 16, are they going to give me some pregnancy test in drug stores?

[Jess~]

you can go to the dollar store and get a pregnancy test that works just as well as any other one

[bentastic]

Dollar store? What is that? I think in my town dont have that, only drug stores.and pharmacy's. And ia age.matter when buying? Im just 16

No, age should not matter. If you are uncertain you could probably do a quick Google search to make certain that your country doesn't have an age restriction.

[bentastic]

Thank you for all your support! I'll give you update after few days if something happens that worry us. Thanks a lot! You guys are awesomee! Love lots!

[Markus]

Sure thing! Do continue to keep us posted. I hope everything will work out well for you two.

I'm sorry that you are going through this. But there is no way that she is pregnant. Like said above the only way is for you to ejaculate inside of her, and since you didn't do that, she isn't pregnant.

I do not know what these symptoms could be, but she wouldn't be showing any signs right now even if she was. If you guys are really worried then I would suggest buying the test. Use it two weeks after the time you had sexual relations.

[bentastic]

Hello guys. Update, her period didnt come ip this month. We're worried. She's irregular, but this july and august her period comes but now it didn't but she already feel signs of the upcoming period its been a week and a half when she feel it. Please reply

If it's been two weeks since the incident I advise she take a pregnancy test. Not because I necessarily believe she is pregnant but because you both seem worried and this will help relieve that worry.

If her periods have been irregular in the past... That is likely why she hasn't started now... Even if they were regular the past few months... Irregularity can cause that. I know someone that tends to be pretty irregular but occasionally she will have a few months... Maybe even as long as 6 months... Worth of what would be considered regular.

After you all take a pregnancy test it might be wise to look into contraceptive... Even something like condoms... Birth control is a tad bit more effective but if you all don't have access condoms will be fine. You should definitely invest in condoms if you two have a desire to take your relationship further.

I think it might also be a good idea for your girlfriend to go to the doctor about her irregularity. There are numerous causes for it and it might be good for her to get some help figuring out what is causing it.

Best of luck.

[bentastic]

Is age matter when buying pregnancy test? Im just 16

No, it should not. Idk what country you are in but in the usa, UK, and Canada I have never heard of anyone having to worry about their age when picking up a pregnancy test. If you are in another country... I might be able to help you determine if they have any type of age restriction for people purchasing pregnancy tests. Or, you could simply do a Google search to find out.

[bentastic]

Im in Philippines, and are we gpijg to take a test once? We are planning to take the test on tuesday. That is two weeks and 1 day after we did it

You should only have to take the test once. From my search I can't seem to find any definitive answers about age restrictions for tests. My assumption is that of there was a restriction it would have been one of the first things to pop up.

[bentastic]

Is it possible that the test would fail?

It is very unlikely. The at home tests are supposed to be about 99% accurate. So, there is room for you to get a false positive or something but I don't think it's something that happens all that often. If you were to get a positive you could take another one to be certain. I know most at home pregnancy kits usually come with more than one test. The brand I use has the option of five tests in a kit.

[Eternal]

It usually takes upwards of four weeks before pregnancy symptoms even begin to show up. The nausea and anything else she was feeling only one day after was completely unrelated. As others have said, the chances are extremely low. Her period could be missing due to a variety of reasons, one of them being that she is a teenager. When I was 16, my periods were very irregular, and I could go months without it at times. If you need the peace of mind, you can buy a pregnancy test, and no, you don't have to be a certain age to buy one. Pregnancy tests are very rarely wrong, but just be sure you read the directions and use it properly.

A lot of teenagers have pregnancy scares when they start being intimate with someone. I think this is a good reminder to be very safe when interacting with your girlfriend. Use condoms when necessary, and she should consider talking to her mother about birth control.

[bentastic]

Guys. I already bought a pregnancy test, we're going to try it tomorrow afternoon. I hope nothing horrible happens. I will update you after the test

[Eternal]

Originally Posted by bentastic

Guys. I already bought a pregnancy test, we're going to try it tomorrow afternoon. I hope nothing horrible happens. I will update you after the test

The best time to use it is actually when she first goes to the bathroom in the morning, because that is when there will be the most hormones for the test to read. Read the directions to ensure accuracy.

[bentastic]

Yes yed, we did it. It was NEGATIVE AND WE ARE GLAD OF IT! THANK YOU GUYS FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT! AND ALL OF YOUR ADVICES!

I'm glad she's not pregnant. However, I would advise the two of you consider contraceptives in the future so you don't have this problem again.

[.Brittany.]

I'm so glad that the test came back negative. Definitely consider some type of contraception next time. It helps relieve a lot of stress! I'm going to go ahead and close this since you got the result of the test.