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Unhappy my girlfriend might be pregnant - July 13th 2009, 11:10 AM

i am 13 about to turn 14 and my girlfriend is 15, we had protected sex, but she has been having bad pains under the right side of her ribs, we did some research and most of the things show that she might be pregnant. I don't know how she could get pregnant the condoms never broke and we have never done it unprotected. Anyway she told me that her parents said that if she ever gets pregnant she is going to get kicked out, and I just can't handle my parents. Can anyone help me in some way?
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Re: my girlfriend might be pregnant - July 13th 2009, 11:47 AM

Has she taken a pregnancy test? I think she should before you just to the conclusion, make sure she takes too and if they both come out negative then it's pretty accurate that she's not pregnant. The pain at the bottom of her ribs could be something else, strain, appendix or something starting I had something like that on my left side recently. Just because you researched it doesn't mean everything on the internet is very correct, alot of the time it isnt, has she had any morning sickness and things like that?
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Re: my girlfriend might be pregnant - July 13th 2009, 01:36 PM

Have her take a test first. There's no point stressing out and worrying about it if you don't know for sure. Keep in mind that if she's pregnant, the two of you do have some options. If you live in the US, see if there's a planned parenthood in your area that you can get to (--link--.) It may also help to just take a look at the site.



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Re: my girlfriend might be pregnant - July 14th 2009, 02:32 AM

Yes, she can take a test 14 days after the day she thinks she may have conceived or the date of sex rather. If you have to wait it out, do not stress over it. Its most likely not pregnancy related if she is not having other symptoms.


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Re: my girlfriend might be pregnant - July 14th 2009, 03:46 AM

take a test... if its negative I suggest your girlfriend gets on birth control right away. There's nothing 100% about a condom, you two are obviously too young to handle the situation if she were to become pregnant... if you're going to have sex then do it responcibly.





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Re: my girlfriend might be pregnant - July 14th 2009, 07:16 PM

If you used a condom, and you used it correctly meaning you didn't stay in after you came long enought for your penis to go soft and some of the semen to leak out around her vagina, and you made sure the condom came out with your penis when you took it out, then there's very little chance she's pregnant.

A lot of girls get false pregnancy symptoms after their first time from stress. A lot even have late periods just to add to the excitement. It's not unusual. It is a good idea, though, to get a pg test to make sure.

And use a condom in the future, don't stay in after you come, and pull it out with you. I know it's a drag, but it's better than the alternative.
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Re: my girlfriend might be pregnant - July 16th 2009, 04:41 AM

taking a test is the only way to find out for sure. has she missed her periods? or felt really sick in the morning? when i was pregnant i didnt get pain under my rib so she may not be but try and get her to take a test then wait for the result theres no need to work yourselves up if she isnt if it turns out she is then you can deal with it one step and a time. pm me if you need anything
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