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Just Sad - February 8th 2010, 05:11 AM

So I'm about 2 months pregnant now. When I told my boyfriend he was all for keeping the baby and doing this together, but he left me today. He said he's not ready to be tied down at 17. He wants to go have fun and not have a kid to deal with. He doesn't even want to be in the babys life. That he doesn't want to see or talk to me again. So now I have to deal with being a young teenage single mom. I mean there is no way I would have an abortion and I'm to emotional for adoption. So I'm gonna keep the baby. that makes everything harder doesn't it? I hate crying.. I feel depressed again, thats not even a good thing..
   
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Re: Just Sad - February 8th 2010, 05:45 PM

Plenty of single teenage mom's make it through, no doubt it'll be hard but if you're dedicated to your child then everything will work out. What about having the support of your family and friends?





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Re: Just Sad - February 8th 2010, 06:25 PM

Don't think that you can't do this alone. There are so many single teenage moms that do just fine. It may even be stressful if you have the baby's father around. You will be a great mom. You just have to really believe and yourself and do whats best for you. Try talking to friends and family maybe. They may be able to offer some support seeing as you don't have much of it. Remind yourself that your strong and you get through this. If it be alone, or not.

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Re: Just Sad - February 8th 2010, 09:38 PM

I'm so sorry. Unfortunately, a lot of young guys just aren't mature enough to stick around. Just because he's not around right now, though, doesn't mean that he won't be later. Sometimes guys just get scared. If/when he sees the baby, he might straighten his act up. That doesn't mean that all guys do, but I've heard of some who have.

In the meantime, just hang in there and be strong for your baby. There are a lot of young single mothers who do just fine.


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