OMG!

[Kokoro]

Not even got hospital until Thursday, but not knowing what to make of this.. Yesterday I was out with my boyfriend (we got back together) and he was touching my stomach and he said it was VERY tender, about 20 mins after this I had the most painful stomach ache for like 4-5 hours. By the 4th hour I was bleeding so we went to hospital. Upon arrival I went straight to the toilets, a huge clot came out but we never got around to seeing a doctor because the GP wasn't a walk in thing, so they told me to make an appointment with my GP, which would be fine if there was any.

Now, what is happening to me?
Am I losing my baby?
My doctor first told me there should be NO pain during pregnancy at all.
Me and my boyfriend are really worried about this, should I wait until Thursday to get it sorted?

[dejaentendu0]

it sounds like a miscarriage to me.
Go see your GP as soon as possible.

[LucyLouWho]

I've always been told that if you have pain AND bleeding, then it's more than likely a miscarriage. Especially if there's clotting. But if it's only pain OR light pink bleeding, then there's still a chance that it's nothing at all.

I'm sorry for your loss and I don't think that this should ever happen to anyone. An abortion would have made the exact same thing happen, dear... Pain, bleeding, and clotting. I'm sorry... But that's the way that medical abortions work... they cause you to miscarry. You should still go to the doctor, though, to make sure that all of the tissue is gone from your body. If any remains, it can cause a serious infection.

I hope you're feeling better soon.

[Kokoro]

But I wanted to get rid of it myself.. I can't even begin to express how hard this has actually hit me. :'//
I will try and see my GP as soon as, I'll make an emergency appointment, if I am allowed for this sort of thing. :l

Thank you al. I cannot believe this.

[Nicolette]

sorry hun, things happen that we can't control. It sounds like a miscarriage to me.

[MisplacedDreamer]

Did the hospital know that you were pregnant and experiencing vaginal bleeding?

Depending on the size of the clot, you could have already passed the fetus. I would have taken the clot into the doctor depending on the size of it for testing in case it was the fetus.

I am sorry for what is happening to you, especially when you were prepared to go through with one choice and suddenly this happens.

[Kokoro]

Omg, so i dont even know where the fetus is.. whether it's inside me or whether it's gone. I didn't want this baby but.. I could just cry. I still have my hospital appointment on Thursday, but judging by the pain, I may need to find a way to go sooner.

[LucyLouWho]

Originally Posted by Kokoro

Omg, so i dont even know where the fetus is.. whether it's inside me or whether it's gone. I didn't want this baby but.. I could just cry. I still have my hospital appointment on Thursday, but judging by the pain, I may need to find a way to go sooner.

I would definitely advise you to go in soon, probably before Thursday. You need to get checked out just in case there is infection or something. I hope you're feeling better soon.

[Imagine]

I have to say please go ASAP! Good luck! We're all here to support you no matter what.

[Unicorn ♥✿]

So sorry , i'm no doctor but I think you may have miscarried.
Please see a doctor asap , please keep us updated too.

[Kokoro]

Hot water bottle and painkillers until thursday.. then hospital. Will keep you all updated. I'll let you all know how it goes
This is very sad for me and my boyfriend, but we will get through it. I can get through anything -___- x

[xx little miss clumsy xx]

If you can go before Thursday, please do. You need to get checked out
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Take care
x

[Kokoro]

Thankyou very much!
All you're support means the world to me!

[lexi212]

Hey there. I went through a miscarraige almost 2 years ago, and it was the worst experience of my life. Please come to me if you need anything, I'm happy to help! Keeep us posted!

[Fictional]

I'm so sorry to hear about this I don't really have any advice I can give you, but you're in my thoughts, and the best of luck at the doctor's tomorrow, if you ever need to talk, I'm always here for you honey

[Kokoro]

As if I did go on Thursday.. :'l I got to the doors, and ran off. I was TOO scared, why is this so scary? :l
Tomorrow is my last chance at an appointment. I just sent my Mum the message on facebook.
OHGOD! I should have it sorted by the end of tomorrow. :l

[Nightmare]

Aww hon, you have to get to the doctor, it's extremely important so they can figure out exactly what happened and what to do. I know it must be terrifying, but you need to, for your own sake. I believe in you, I know you can do this!

[Kokoro]

Thank you. I believe I can do it too.
I have just been really brave, and sent my Mum a facebook message telling her that I am/was pregnant, but I'm not sure if I lost it or not. So when I get back from the hospital hopefully she'll be there with her arms wide open for me :'l.
My ex -__- is taking me tomorrow, for the one reason he wants it gone. He couldn't care less about MY feelings.

[Fictional]

I'm so sorry it's not working out for you right now I'm sure when your mum sees that message, she'll be there for you, but until then, you've got all of us ehre hoping this'll pick up for you sweetie

[Kokoro]

My Mum and Dad have been so supportive. As have you guys.
Thank you, I'm not actually having so much of an hard time, the usual, cry one day, then just feel relatively normal the rest of more life with a couple of relapses here and there. Strength.