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December 24th 2010, 07:14 PM
a couple of months ago my boyfriend and i planned to have a baby. we thought of this because we thought i was pregnant for a long time but the tests kept on saying no and we both became bummed although at first we were so worried that i could be pregnant. now my boyfriend doesnt want a baby ect but i really really really want one. i'm not really sure what to do but he knows that i want a baby. can you please help me
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Re: wanting -
December 24th 2010, 07:23 PM
Give it time, the thoughts of you not being pregnant was more likely a huge relief off your boyfriends shoulders. He might have been "happy" to think there was a chance of you being pregnant but the whole situation could have really scared him as well. Just talk to him about it but understand if he doesn't feel ready about bringing a child into the world yet. Babies cost alot of money and are incredibly strenuous on relationships.
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Re: wanting -
December 24th 2010, 07:30 PM
i totally agree but him and i are in a long distance relationship. both of us are 3 hours away from one another so we thought it could help
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Re: wanting -
December 24th 2010, 10:41 PM
You should never bring a child into this world because you think it will "help" a relationship. That is beyond selfish. Being pregnant is a very big stress on a relationship and all the things that come with a new born will make that stress even worse. I have been with my now husband for almost 2 years and we went through really hard times after i became pregnant even though we were both planning it.
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