yea i dont know

[anzboy]

im not sure wat to say this the first time im doing something like this
first ill say family background
7th child n parents n family raised me to think i hav to grow up to marry a girl n i believed it
but recently 3 years ago im havin problems with not being attracted to girls pass a close friend level
but im became mor attracted to guys pass friend levels n cuz me to feel different things i dont feel with girls
n its not so much based on the phyical details cuz i haved check out my guy friends b4 n i dont hav anything wrong with my looks but i never really gave any those looks i giv guys to girl friends (note my friends range from any where im a social person that fits in well many social groups) n after the 1st year i feel i might b bi cuz i still did had small feelings left to girls but i feel lik its mor a long shot n early last year i forgotten the idea of bi cuz i feel almost no want of a personal relationship with any girl but i hav had many ideas of being with men n even a few of my friends that r guys so can anyone tell me wat im really feelin cuz im just confused

[greekchick]

If you feel NO attraction to girls, then youre probably gay, but don't rush into any decision, try both out and see which one does more for you. It may all seem new and scary to you now, but it will get better. If you don't have any friends or family members you feel comfortable telling, then try to go to a local GLBTA (sp?) and seek support there. We were all raised like that, so you're def not alone .

[anzboy]

yea thx 4 the help but recently after i posted this i look back when i was younger i been slowly noticin guys when i was young 2 for awhile even few boycrushs but i no many girls but not attarcted to any even on a crush peroid (different types of girls i no)

[greekchick]

Well like I said if you feel that you are gay, just think it over and try to get comfortable with it. It's okay!

[anzboy]

im comfortable with the feelin that theres a chance im gay but im just confused about it right now