Losing interest in guys...

[Fanatic]

hello people this is mary and I need help with a problem I'm been having, or I guess you can call it that. I'm a bisexual girl, but I'm starting to lose interest for guys. I feel sexually active to girls, but not what so ever for guys. I'm starting to feel emotionally active to girls because I like this one girl named Justy, and shes so nice and we have alot in common & I just feel a connection with her. I'm starting to feel also a romantially active to girls now, and still with guys. Also, I'm phyically active all the way with girls, but not so ever with guys. I know I had bad experiences with guys, but I just don't feel as much a connection to them. I'm also not boy crazy, but only to a few guys and that's it. Am I lesbian or is it just a denial for me to guys?

[Heartlines.]

Hey I know what you're going through. I'm going through the same thing you are.

Don't worry so much about putting lables on your sexuality.
There is this scale. It's called the Kinsey scale

0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual -- Only arrtracted to guys
1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual -- Mostly attracted to guys, only rarely attracted to girls
2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual -- Sometimes attracted to girls
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual-- Bisexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual --Sometimes attracted to boys, mostly attracted to girls
5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual -- Rarely attracted to boys, mostly attracted to girls.
6- Exclusively homosexual-- Lesbian.


I would be a 4.7 on this scale.


So think of your sexuality like that.
It will change. It's natural for your feelings to go
back and forth.

[TheLittleNinja]

Hey there :]

As Lyndsee said if you are confused with your emotions right now, really don't worry about labelling yourself. How you feel is how you feel - you don't have to necessarily fit into a certain labelled group :]

People often find when growing up and questioning their sexuality that they change their opinions of themselves numerous times before settling down to a final answer of who they are sexually - if your going through this stage I would advise that you just go with the flow and find yourself before even thinking about labelling yourself :]

Take Care