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LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity Whether you're LGBT, questioning, have gender identity issues, or have entirely unrelated feelings, this forum is here to help with your questions.

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A New Take On Sexuality... - February 9th 2010, 07:58 PM

Well, not entirely.

The thought occurred to me when writing a post a few days ago.

Personally, I think defining sexuality is pointless. If you fall in love, you're in love.
(So what if you said you're straight? It's too late~)

Yeah. It doesn't matter if it's a guy or a girl. You're in love -- nothing can stop you. Unfortunately, it's not that simple nowadays...but I just hoped this might give some people a little peace of mind. I don't know how many people can really agree with this, and follow through, but I hope I can and I hope you can too.

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Re: A New Take On Sexuality... - February 9th 2010, 11:34 PM

i agree. it shouldnt matter, although it does in the world today.

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Re: A New Take On Sexuality... - February 10th 2010, 12:22 AM

I agree, that's always been my philosophy. If I fell in love with a guy, I'd try it out and see where it leads me, but I happened to fall in love with a girl.


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Re: A New Take On Sexuality... - February 10th 2010, 12:54 AM

I believe that sexuality is involved when you fall in love. So It's virtual pretty much impossible for me to fall in love with a girl because the attraction isn't there. That's my theory for myself. I wouldn't fall in love with someone knowing I wouldn't be okay doing certain things with the same sex.


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Re: A New Take On Sexuality... - February 10th 2010, 06:18 PM

I completely agree... sometimes. I wish I could agree all the time, but society really does put a large amount of pressure on labeling. Most of the time I feel like I need to know what I am. I still don't know, though.


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