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What does this mean? - February 11th 2010, 03:21 PM

alright so yesterday on the phone my bf told me he was bisexual....does this mean were going to have to have threesomes with guys or something?


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Re: What does this mean? - February 11th 2010, 03:42 PM

No, not at all.
It just means he is attracted to men and women.


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Re: What does this mean? - February 11th 2010, 03:45 PM

No it does not mean you are going to HAVE to have threesomes.
Although you can if you both want to that side of it is up to the two of you.

Basically all it means is you boyfriend is attracted to both men and women..
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Just because he is bisexual it doesn't mean he needs to have threesomes, that is just one of the stereotypes about bisexuals. He also isn't greedy for liking both sex's and it doesn't mean he will automatically cheat on you with a man.

My boyfriend is bisexual and he has never even suggested threesomes.

Also he can't force you in to a threesome if you don't want too.
   
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Re: What does this mean? - February 11th 2010, 03:54 PM

Yea, Like the others have said - nothing has to change within your relationship just because of his sexuality. If you both feel comfortable with trying a sexual experience with other people then that's up to you - but make sure you are both 100% committed first :]

Certainly talk to him, and find out how bisexual he feels - some bisexuals like the same sex in different ways (i.e - Emotional rather than sexual relationships)


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Re: What does this mean? - February 11th 2010, 04:34 PM

Isn't he in England?

But I don't think he'll expect threesomes. People into threesomes are a wide range of sexual orientations, often they all consider themselves heterosexual. My point is like many straight people arent into that, many bisexuals aren't either, because threesomes are usually about having two sex partners, not orientation.

If he does ask you for such things, or if he asks for any extra provisions beyond just you and him, you'll have to talk about it and decide how you feel.

I think for now you should just realise that it means he really trusts you and feel comfortable enough with you to feel you'll still accept him.


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Re: What does this mean? - February 11th 2010, 05:34 PM

he is but we talk on the phone most days

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