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[The Kira]

So... ummm... there is this girl.
She and I are really good friends but lately she has been acting wierd. Like, she can randomly squeeze my ass and what not... I mean me and my girks do that as jokes and all, we go crazy, but this girl... I like, feel another vibe... And we were having a sleepover and she just starts humping me and I was like GET OFF and laughed it off, but I am really starting to feel uncomfortable, since I have a bf and I am straight...

Ummm.... any advice???

[greekchick]

Hmmmmm, You should prob bring gay up casually in conversation sometime and like assert your straightness. Like don't make her feel like shit or anything, but i'm sure you know what I mean. Either that or just tell her seriously to stop when she does stuff like that cuz it makes you uncomfortable.

Thats all I got lol.

[The Kira]

Thanks, of course I wouldnt make her feel bad. I respect homosexuality 100%. I just dont know how to bring it up to let her know that I'm not interested

[ftme]

she may be simply joking around. i know that when i was younger, some of my friends would joke to that extent and seem serious, although they were just hyper and upbeat. just throwing that out there. i wouldn't worry about it, unless it is making you uncomfortable.

[~CourageousSurvivor~]

Hey there,

I think the best thing you can do in this situation is talk to her about it. Ask her what is going on and let her know how you feel. You said that you and your friends do little things like that as well and maybe she is just trying to fit in and in the process is taking it too far.

I think you should just calmly sit down with her and let her know that you like her and want to be her friend but you are feeling uncomfortable. As hard as it can be to place boundaries when it comes to people it is an important thing to do because people need to know that you have boundaries. Also, telling people when they are doing something that makes you uncomfortable is good for them so that they can learn a little more about you as a person.

Best of luck,

Jenna

[Izzy]

this is the sort of thing i used to do. WHen i was a bit hyper or what no i would do the same thing. She may be like me or she may be gay. Ask her about it but dont interriagte her ask her casually.

I took it to far and my friends ended up being very annoied with it so i would ask her before it gets out of hand..

basicly just talk about it

[The Kira]

ok, so i talked to her about it, but she sort of shoo'd it off and then I asked another friend to ask her about it and turns out she like likes me... I dont know... I dont want to hurt her the least bit, but... Idk what to do

[Guile]

Explain to her your dislike of the touching and the feeling, even if it was a guy this would be highly inappropriate as it constitutes sexual harassment. Also let her know your feelings about homosexuality, and that you want no part in a relationship like that.