Someone please help :/

[emochild24]

Okay... So i'm a 14 year old guy. I'm bisexual. Last year in november, i met this other guy.. Let's call him Jim. I met him at a youth club thing. He's also Bisexual. my friend brang him to youth to meet me. (He was kinda confused about his feelings) Like, 2 days later, we started going out. I was so happy. like 2 weeks later, i realised i was in love with him. Yeah, i know, you're probably thinking "it's not love if it happened that fast" But it is. Our relationship was pretty good.. Apart from sometimes i had random mood swings when i just felt so crap and upset. Jim thought something was seriously wrong with me, and got so worried. He couldn't sleep at night or anything. Eventually, it got to the point where he couldn't take it anymore, and he dumped me on new years day. :/ I just can't get over him, and everything i do or say, or all the music i listen too, pretty much reminds me of him. We're friends. But i wanna be more than that. Idk if he feels the same though, 'cause sometimes we act like really good friends, sometimes we act like we barely know eachother. Any advice would be greatly appreciated

[PhoenixAlive]

How long were you two dating in total?

I don't know, maybe before you consider asking him to take you back you should consider seeing a counselor about the mood swing problem. How serious of mood swings are we talking here?

[Izzy]

try telling him how you really feel.

keeping it a secret wont help and tell him about your mood swings and how he shouldnt be worried (unless they are real bad you shoud get help).

if he keeps saying no dont keep pestering him.. leave it a while and try and get over him or if that fails, ask him once more telling him excactly hiw he is making you sad not being with him etc,.

[a_girlsdreams]

You have to help yourself in order to help or to start another relationship with him.
If things didnt work because of mood swings, show him you are working on controling them.
Try going to a counselor or taking to a teacher in school.
If you arent up to that, at least try to help youself.
Just try to stay positive and focus on other things in life.
Show him through your friendship and maybe he will realize things could be different in a relationship.

Good luck.