Confused Help.

[Ranbaz]

i think i might be bi-curious or bi-sexual whatever you wanna call it. but lately i've been seeing men differently. i'm in a relation with a girl and yes we love eachother but shes bi and i think that's turning me. i've experimented when i was like 13 with guys but nothing ever happened again. i don't know what to think. i wanna try stuff again to figure it out but i can't really do it. any ideas?

[Chazzz]

Everyone goes through a curious stage, whether they like to admit it or not. It's a question every teenager asks themselves at some point.

Obviously you're in a relationship so I wouldn't advise experimenting right now. Perhaps you could discuss your feelings with your girlfriend. She herself being bi-sexual will understand the confusion you're feeling and will be able to aid you through.

If you're happy with your current girlfriend then take your time with it, there's no pressure whatsoever. It's sometimes a complete puzzle to work out what you're feeling and why you're feeling it.

Try to pin point how you're looking at men differently? Is it sexual? Is it in admiration etc?

[Ranbaz]

Originally Posted by Chazzz

Try to pin point how you're looking at men differently? Is it sexual? Is it in admiration etc?

I would have to say it's sexual.

[Chazzz]

Then embrace it.

Don't do anything that would hurt your girlfriend - but don't be ashamed at all by these feelings.

[Ranbaz]

if i told her how i felt towards guys she'd help me out and probably let me test my feelings but i feel weird telling her for some reason.

[Chazzz]

Don't feel weird. It's a perfectly natural feeling.
She is not going to judge you, she shares the same feelings as you do. It'll be great for you to have her by your side and share her experiences with you first hand, from someone you really trust.

She won't see you as any less of a man, I'm sure of it. If anything, she should respect you for being honest and being able to open up to her about such a big thing.

[Ranbaz]

i don't know when to tell her though, i think if i just say it outa the blue it's awkward.

[Chazzz]

Well, you don't have to.
Just tell her you wish to discuss something with her, not to worry - it's nothing bad but you wish for her opinion on a matter.

If you want to discuss it further PM me. Seem to be having a bit too much of a 1>1 conversation.

[Ranbaz]

Any other comments would be appreciated.

[Jaguar]

Pillow talk after sex is a good time to talk about stuff like this. You said she's bi: she ought to be open to talking about it, but put it in the context of feelings and not make it sound like you want to play around.

[Ranbaz]

Thanks you fellows have good ideas.

[Ranbaz]

so for some reason my girlfriend broke up with me and i don't know why i have yet to get a legit reason, but now i'm single i wanna pursue this any ideashow.