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LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity Whether you're LGBT, questioning, have gender identity issues, or have entirely unrelated feelings, this forum is here to help with your questions.

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Confused like a lot - February 28th 2010, 03:54 AM

Ok so...I pretty much know im bi but im not 100% sure I mean yea ive been with a girl but that was only once and yes im atracted to girls but idk....I just dont know if its the I havent found another girl I would find worth dateing or what....im just really really confused about a lot of things lately and Im just woundering if im not well just losing my mind?
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Re: Confused like a lot - February 28th 2010, 05:25 PM

Hey There!

Try not to be too confused! Your not losing your mind! We all go through this 'Questioning' stage in life!

Now, One rule I personally live by is that you don't 'have' to label yourself. You don't have to fit any category if you don't feel sure, and feel free to just be you.

As will any type of person, of any sexuality - it takes time to find the 'right' one. Being bi, doesn't mean you have to a girl as a partner - some female bi people NEVER have a girl as a partner they just find them attractive!!

Don't feel that because your 'bi' you have to go out there and do everything that other 'bi' people do! You don't! Just do what your happy with!!

Give yourself time to find out about yourself, what you want from your future, and from there decide how you want to act on sexuality.

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Re: Confused like a lot - February 28th 2010, 09:55 PM

hey!! i know how you feel, im extremely confused as well... but, i have come to find that there shouldn't be much to be confused about.. i mean, labels are labels, but what good are they for exactly? do you really need a label to make yourself feel more comfortable, or will it just make you more uncomfortable? i guess what im trying to say is, its okay to be who you are, and you dont have to have everything figured out right now

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Re: Confused like a lot - March 1st 2010, 07:03 PM

Try not to worry yourself and get worked up over it. The chips will fall in place. =)You might not be for sure now as to what you are.I mean if you like girls then that is a start.Its just a prefernce after all.You could also still be going through the curiousity stage.Where you're just trying things out trying to figure out what you really want.Just let things work out on their own.There could be a really sweet guy that comes about that you are drawn to, or a really nice girl that comes about and you want to give her a chance.Just to worry yourself over what you are. You'll know in good time. =)


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