Might go here...

[lost_chil]

I am having a hard time... I think I like on of my friends, ftm trans...But the thing that is bothering me is the whole female to MALE! Because of my father, I've had a really hard time inviting males into my life. But I think I really like him, but it's hard because I'm scared if he starts T and starts getting aggresive and violent like I know men to be... I'm really scared, but feel like shit if I don't give him a try... I really like him, and thinik there is something there, but I'm scared.What do you think? Should I try and get over my fear of men, and see where our friendship goes and if it leads to dating, go with it like I want? Or not let it go that far at all and ruin a possible wounderufl friendship, and possibly a good relationship?

[DeadlySin]

I don't think one guy should ruin all your views on men. I know it happens, as for me it just took a few too many =P
But why not give a try?
If you see something there, and think something could happen. Then I say go for it!

Then the second something doesn't feel right, or just seems to be going wrong. Get out of the relationship before something goes to far.

Don't shut yourself down to men, give it a shot! What's the harm?
Just be careful and listen to your gut feelings. =)

Good luck!