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Friend of a Friend -
March 17th 2010, 08:43 PM
So basically, my friend has a friend. Her friend is bi. I've come out to the world as being gay. I really want to talk to her friend, because she is dealign with being bi as well as severe depression, but she's refusing help from ANYONE. I've dealt with both of these things a lot, but she won't let me talk to her or help her. Is there anything i can do to try and get through to her?
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Re: Friend of a Friend -
March 17th 2010, 09:15 PM
All you can really do if she does not want help since you can not force it is to let her know that you are there for her should she change her mind.
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Re: Friend of a Friend -
March 18th 2010, 10:16 AM
Since you're dealing with issues about being gay, you might break the ice by saying it would help you to talk about it some with her.
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Re: Friend of a Friend -
March 19th 2010, 08:16 PM
Just try striking a casual conversation.
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Re: Friend of a Friend -
March 19th 2010, 09:28 PM
As much as I know you want to, you can't force her to accept your help. Make sure that she knows that she'll always have a shoulder to cry on, someone to talk to, or whatever she needs in you - and without judgement. And then my advice would be to leave it at that - don't press the topic any further; let her make the next move, but keep in touch with her, make sure she's still doing alright.
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March 19th 2010, 09:48 PM
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I also like the idea of you maybe finding someway that she could 'help' you - so that way she doesn't feel like the 'silly' person for asking for help. I'm still alive.
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