what do i do?

[love=pain]

well there's this girl, let's call her "A".
from the first day i met her i knew i liked her, a lot, but i didn't know whether she was bi, gay or straight. I was always unsure because she would always talk about this guy she was in love with. But then she started doing stuff that really caught my attention. she would make up songs about me, she would unbutton my pea-coat and pull me in for a hug in my coat then she would button it back up to the neck stop run her hand across my face stare at me then pull me in for another hug, or we would just stand there and i would look over and she would be staring at me. I don't know what to do i haven't really told anyone i like girls except one friend. And i'm afraid that i might be wrong about the signals and if i tell her how i feel it might just separate us a little. she went away to college so i want to tell her as soon as possible before someone else has their chance with her.

so should i tell her? should i first come out to her then tell her my feelings? should i just leave our friendship the way it is and not bring it up? any advice?

[love=pain]

does anyone have any advice about this problem?

[ntguard19]

all i can say is you should bring up lgbtq talk as in if you have a friend get her appion on gay people and go from there and then if she is like oh they are cool or i don't have a problem then tell her that you are and see what she says

[Ryan1]

Well this is one of those times where you've got to read her. If she's flirty and touchy I think I'd say something to her. If you don't ask you never know what could have been. Ask her to hangout one night and start up a conversation if she feels the same way she'll let you know.

Good Luck!

[love=pain]

ntguard19 she seems pretty cool about LGTBQ community as a whole. thanks guys for the advice. ill talk to her =D.